What do you suggest?

Question

My 20 something nephew has been living with us for years. I also have 4 kids (3 mine and 1 step). I feel uncomfortable about having sex in my own home cuz I am afraid someone is outside the door. Also my husband and nephew are like best friends and I feel like he share everything with him including our sex life. I told him I believed I was bi and then my nephew started saying check her out. Making me a very uncomfortable and wanting to back off. What do you suggest???

I want to experiment with another women but don't like that my nephew might find out... any suggestions on this as well.

I let him stay there because he is not playing with a full deck. He acts like a 13 yr old in a body of a 20 yr old. He's family!!!

Answer 1

Whose house? Who's the guest? Whose Rules "While under my roof"?

I suggest your nephew show you some respect, if only out of gratitude for your letting him stay with you all these years. A word to mind his own and get busy looking for his own bit of fun and to butt out of your's and your husband's.

Finally, a word to your husband along the lines of "what's said n' done in the bedroom, stays in the bedroom."

Answer 2

I mean, I'm normally not this opinionated about adults still living at home or with family members, but in this case...where there seems to be a level of disrespect, I think he needs to be gone...Needs to be on his own if he feels he's GROWN enough to be makin' such comments and things...Feeling uncomfortable in YOUR own home?? Totally unacceptable..

Answer 3

Lay down the law. This is how is gonna be, or get the fck out.

Answer 4

tell hubby when things are private! if he still does it- i would stop telling hubby anything i wasnt ok with being on the 6 o'clock news