Who should I be with the father of my child or my boyfriend I love them both?

Answer 1

You should grow the hell up and think of your child you retard

Answer 2

How can you love them both. Why did you have a child with the guy if you didn't love him? Why do you have another boyfriend? Since you have a choice? Then i would definetly stay with the father of the child. You need to think about the BABY not NO MAN or anything. But it would be much better if you loved the father of your child and had a real family. How old are you and why are you not married, and why do you have two boyfriends whom you think you can just choose one or the other. Do they know about each other even?

Answer 3

Well I agree with the response who treats you and your kid the best. But I also, want to say if the father of your child is good, respectful, treats you like a queen and is supportive, then stay with him because if you want more kids then that way your children can have the same father. But then you have to think that there must be more because if the father was all of that then you would not have a boyfriend. (hum!) Is the boyfriend good to your child? Because in these days and times we as women have to be very careful about who we bring around our children. But if you can try to see if things could work with the baby's father.

Good Luck, I hope that this information was helpful seeing on how I don't know all of the details.

Answer 4

Well let's see, Awe come on, you can't love them both the same. There has to be some difference. Personally, If I were a female in that situation I would pick the father of my child. Sorry about the first part. I believe there is more to this than you are telling. But anyway good luck.

Answer 5

Well agree with the person who said you need to check yourself out. You have a child and the way you handle yourself in relationships is going to affect that child. I personally think that if there is a chance for a child to have both his/her parents together as a family it's best. However, you REALLY need to access where you are and want you want and what is best for you and your child. No matter who you end up with your child's father will always be a part of your life and you need to consider that in your decision.

Answer 6

I was bought up to believe that if you love two people, neither of them will be good enough on their own. Maybe you should look for someone who fulfills all your needs and that you wont need to have two male partners with. If your sure one of these two is best, you need to decide which ones better, if the child wasnt involved, who would you go for? Who treats you both better? What does your child think? I hope you make a good decision.

Answer 7

i think you need to slow down and get your poop in a group, why do you have a bf if you are in love with the father of your child? and why do you have a child if you want to have a bf other than the father? you sound really screwed up and i'd take some time to figure you out before you go messing with any more lives than you already have.

Answer 8

You should try to get back together with the father of your child because that would be the best thing for the baby providing the father is stable enough to provide for his family.

Answer 9

Go for the father of your child. The other guy is less likely to accept your child is his own.

Answer 10

This is no longer about you, it is about the child. The child needs to be with their father. YOU need to grow up and be more responsible for your child! Everything you do now has to be for kid.

Answer 11

the father