I think he noticed because when I stayed over his house I woke up early in the morning and threw up.And he kept telling me that my boobs are getting bigger, and I sleep a lot. Me and his mom are close and I think he told his mom and she call me every morning and ask me am I ok, and do I need anything.I dont know how to tell him that im pregnant.Can somebody tell me how I should tell him?
2006-06-27 08:47:29 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
I am 16 years old
2006-06-27 08:52:57 · update #1
My boyfriend is 18 years old
2006-06-27 09:01:58 · update #2
Try this, "Boyfriend, I'm pregnant." Then deal with the consequences. You figured you were mature enough to have sex - prove it by being mature enough to deal with the consequences of that sex.
2006-06-27 08:50:16 · answer #1 · answered by Scadle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This happen to me after I moved in with my boyfriend (now husband), but I honestly don't remember how I told him. I think I said that I missed my period, and I took a pregnancy test about a week so later to confirm it. Then we told everyone a few weeks later when we were ready. I'm sorry that I can not be more helpful as its a blur to me! Honestly, it was really stressful, and that's why I'm forgetting it! Anyway, you need to tell him, and you need to tell him what you want to do (I remember having that conversation with him). Well, eight years later we have a very intelligent boy and two beautiful girls.
My mom was seventeen when she had me, and my parents have been together for over 30 years. There have been some bumps, but it has worked out for them. Since you are young and need to finish school, you really need to think about your options. You could keep it and go to night school, or you could give it away for adoption. You need to have the talk today and no later. It will work out for the best. Good Luck.
2006-06-27 08:59:56 · answer #2 · answered by agtac76 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you think he knows then he very well probably does. Which should make it a little easier cause he already knows what to expect he's worked himself passed the stage to be scared of. You know? You just need to tell him that you know your pregnant...your keeping it(if thats your choice...hopefully it is.) And that you'd lvoe if he could be part of your child's life and help out with anything needed. If his mom is ok with it, then he'll be ok with it. When i found out i was....i told my boyfriend..he asked me to have an abortion and i said i was going ot keep it and can raise the baby without him. He calmed down and realized that was a bad choice. He told his mom, she was thrilled....gave him all the advice he needed....now he's understanding and so much more helpful. Cuase in a man's life...his mother is top priority. With her blessing...its easier for him. Just remember your baby is more important than anyone in this world! Including yourself. Good Luck!!!!
2006-06-27 08:54:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It just depends on how he feels about it. If you think he's going to be excited then you could do something like writing a message in the street with chalk and make it colorful and bright and when he comes home from work or wherever then he'll see it. If you don't think he'll be excited then you'll just have to sit him down and tell him no matter how he takes it.
2006-06-27 08:50:22 · answer #4 · answered by BeeFree 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well I had to tell my husband i was pregnant when he came back from war..it was hard bc i knew how much stress he was already under and at the last thing we need is a baby...but i just sat him down and we talked to have to be very blunt and stand youre ground be honest..Im sure he will understand.
2006-06-27 08:53:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You seem like you love him very much, so just tell him. I know that you're scared that he might reject that you are, and if he does, I guess he's not the kind of man you may think he is. Other than that you have nothing to worry about, because most likely he is, and he will love you and your baby even more. He will be happy.
2006-06-27 08:58:07 · answer #6 · answered by vicky24 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well u should know what makes u your boyfriend happy or how to get him in a good mood take the man somewhere nice or romantic when everything is goin fine u say sweetie or honey or babes whatever u call him i hav something to tell 4 some time now listen if he is going to say something if not u go ahead n tell him we r going to hav a baby
2006-06-27 08:53:57 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just bite the bullet and do it. It is going to take a long time for him to get over being pissed off about this. Cause it sounds unplanned (as were mine.) But the longer you put it off the more it will stress you. And being pregnant you don't need the extra stress to harm your baby.
2006-06-27 08:51:25 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is scary to tell him but he does need to know. Make it just the two of you someplace that is special to both of you or where ever his favorite place to be is. Tell him soon so he doesn't think you are hiding things from him, that is always bad thing. The sooneer he finds out the sooner he can bond with that growing belly of yours.
2006-06-27 08:54:35 · answer #9 · answered by truedupontblue24 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The easiest way is to sit him down and give him the results from your doctor. Its easier this way. The longer you wait the harder it will be on you. Whatever happens it will all be over in a couple of days then you can get down to the business of taking care of your baby properly.
2006-06-27 08:50:35 · answer #10 · answered by proffalken1975 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Whats the problem. He knows.
You have serious comunicationproblems if it isn't out yet. Are you sure he's the one?
Then what is the problem? Obviously everybody knows. You really need to ask yourself why this is such a big issue. Are you scared of having a kid? Not talking does not make it go away.
TALK NOW!!! Just start with:... "Where are we going to put the baby?"
2006-06-27 08:51:17 · answer #11 · answered by Puppy Zwolle 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋