i cheated on my bf on dec 30,05 and i found out on feb28,06 that i was six wks,the my next app was a month after that and the ultra sound said i was 10 wks by the measurements. my due date is 10/25/06. according to all my ultrasounds.who is the father my bf or my mistake.please help me ?????
2006-06-27 08:29:44 · 15 answers · asked by confused 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
That's about the time I found out that I was pregnant with my second child, and she was born on the 31st of October. So I would say that you got pregnant around the end of January or early February. So the guy that you cheated with is not the father, but if you are still not sure, you could take a DNA test to otherwise.
Everyone makes mistakes, that's why we are humans, but you need to make sure that your boyfriend knows what happen. You don't need to keep secrets when the baby is born as you will need all the support that you can get. Good Luck and take life one step at a time. Congrats on having the baby.
2006-06-27 08:42:29 · answer #1 · answered by agtac76 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
The only way to know 100% for sure is to do DNA testing (preferably after the baby is born as testing in the womb exposes the fetus to increased risk of miscarriage.)
It would be helpful to know when your first missed period was due. If 12/30 was 10-15 days before your period was due, there is a decent chance that your "mistake" is the father. If it's outside that range, the chances are probably lower because it's less likely that you were ovulating when you cheated.
2006-06-27 15:38:03 · answer #2 · answered by mockingbird 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you truly are ten weeks then it most likely is your boyfriends child unless dec 30 wasn't the only time you cheated. I was in a similar situation. I thought I was only five months pregnant, had an ultrasound, turned out to be more like 7 months along which means i wasn't sure it was my husbands child. The only true way of knowing is DNA testing. The way I knew it wasn't my husbands was when my baby came out with blue eyes and looked just like my mistake. I wish the best of luck to you. Don't spend your whole pregnancy thinking about who the dad is, just enjoy the little kicks he/she makes. Trust me you'll miss it when their out.
2006-06-27 15:45:29 · answer #3 · answered by Coffee Lover 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your due date keeps changing too. I know this, I just had a baby. Sounds like your b/f is not the father. DNA test on Maury is the only way to go.
2006-06-27 15:35:56 · answer #4 · answered by DaCowMan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you only cheated once and didn't use a condom it probably is the guy you cheated with. If you don't use a condom with your BF I wouldn't worry. He is the father. (DNA Is the only way to tell)
2006-06-27 15:59:49 · answer #5 · answered by RUSSELL M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait until your child is born and have a DNA on both. Next time be careful. Your body and child deserves better
2006-06-27 15:35:01 · answer #6 · answered by Reidi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like your bf to me if ten weeks is correct anyway
2006-06-27 15:33:34 · answer #7 · answered by purple rain 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what is important is that you are its mother - the one who will love your baby most no matter who the father is
2006-06-27 15:35:33 · answer #8 · answered by worldstiti 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you don't know how would we stop cheating and you wouldn't have to worry about it but i would say good chances are its your cheat
2006-06-27 20:38:08 · answer #9 · answered by lkng4lv14892@verizon.net 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a DNA test. If it's not his, I hope he leaves you.
2006-06-27 15:33:45 · answer #10 · answered by Luann 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋