Women are always calling my husband trying to get him into bed. He says that he don't want to cheat with them, but why don't he put a stop to the calls? I want to know how to convince him to stop the calls.
2006-06-27 08:16:18 · 26 answers · asked by da_stressbaby 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
very easy to stop people from calling if your husband really really wants to, we all can feel if someone wants to talk to us or not, we will not bother again if we get cold treatment every time, you know what I mean, so it's your husband, not the other women, why he gave his phone number to them in the first place?
2006-06-27 08:28:26 · answer #1 · answered by Discovery 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
what on earth do you mean 'encourage'? he's your husband right? i would demand, i would answer the phone when they call and i would want to know right NOW how and where they are getting his phone number (and i'd ask them not him)!!! he's lying is what he's doing, honey he says he doesn't want anything to do with them but he's answering the phone when they call...his actions and his words are not lining up to be the same thing and that is a HUGE clue that one of them is not true, since you know for a fact that he's answering the calls then surprise, surprise it must be the words that aren't real. don't be a fool here, open your eyes and see whats happening. how long would he tolerate you getting calls from other guys?? and in case this was all too suttle for you HE'S CHEATING ON YOU, he's then rubbing it in your face and figuring that you are too stupid to figure it out! this would happen one time, there would be one call and immediately following that call he would change his phone number and if he wasn't willing to do that then he obviously wants the calls.
2006-06-27 08:31:20 · answer #2 · answered by dappersmom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl I would give him a dose of his own medicine. I would confide in a close friend and hatch up a plan for them to call me when he's home. I would whisper into that phone and laugh and giggle and ask them, ""You want to do what to me?? Yes I know that what he doesn't know won't hurt him." and giggle some more. After I hung up I would tell him oh that was just some salesperson on the phone and it's nothing to worry about. And so yeah anyway I need to run down the store and I'll be back whenever I get back.
2006-06-27 08:31:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, recrute some of you male friends to call you and ask you the same things, just to let your husband know exactly what he's putting you through....
or, you have to sit down a TALK to him... the more you yell, rant and rave the more he's gonna starting thinking those offers are looking pretty good....but if you simply have a conversation with him about how it makes you feel, and how disrespected you feel that he isn't trying to stop these women....
...personally i'd be nervous that he was already cheating reguardless of what he tells you. men lie, and pull crazy stunts to make you beleive their lies.....
....another way to go is to call these women back and tell them that as his wife you dont appreciate the fact that they are callin trying to hook up with your husband.... and ask them to please go find a single man to fu*k
2006-06-27 08:25:28 · answer #4 · answered by Whitney 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't put up with that. Tell your husband to change his #. If he refuses then I would start to worry. He should respect your feelings and really has no reason to accept calls from these women.
2006-06-27 08:21:37 · answer #5 · answered by shae 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't convince a man or woman to discontinue negative behavior. It is obvious that he has boundaries issues. His lack of respect for you is evident with the constant need to receive calls from other women. He is testing you to determine how far he can go with you. Honey, you are failing horribly. His next step is to ask for an open marriage. Brace yourself!!!
2006-06-27 08:42:41 · answer #6 · answered by Ms. V.H. Robinson 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when they call tell them if they call again then you are gonna put harassment charges against them. Your local police department will get involved and no woman wants to get in trouble over a man. You can also change your number and have it unlisted.If woman get the number and continue to call then I feel your man might be the one who is causing all the trouble and you should move on.
2006-06-27 08:28:34 · answer #7 · answered by dawn71077 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No way in hell would some woman be trying to call my hubby and get him to bed. Tell him if he doesnt stop it you'll leave. It is a form of cheating and it is wrong.
2006-06-27 08:25:43 · answer #8 · answered by EB&Js 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all leave him. you don't need to be cheated on. And if he can't even stop talking to them then he definitely ain't gonna stop sleeping with them. You are better than that. I know my husband would be out the door.
2006-06-27 08:21:14 · answer #9 · answered by kareiokequeen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do they call the house? Or his cell phone? Get him to let you answer next time they call. That'll usually get rid of them. If these women don't know he's married....hearing your voice will let them know. Tell him to tell them to stop calling if he won't let you answer......I hate to say this b/c I hate doing it.....but tell him no more sex til the calls stop.....or you can start having "boy toys" call you....there are just a few options......Good Luck
2006-06-27 08:21:14 · answer #10 · answered by honey_bear_21_1999 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋