Do gay men and lesbians find the opposite sex sexually attractive at all?

Question

Or does looking at even the prettiest woman or sexiest man repulses them? Just curious.

Also, is it ever possible to seduce a gay man? Or lesbian, if you're not the same sex? Is that called experimentation like people call it when heterosexuals do it.

Answer 1

Take your question and flip it around: do straight men and women find the same sex sexually attractive at all? Does looking at even the prettiest woman or sexiest man repulse them? Is it ever possible for a gay man to seduce a straight man, or for a lesbian to seduce a straight woman?

The answers are the same for either orientation.

Answer 2

Hi,

Can't speak for every gay male and not being a woman, can't speak for all lesbians, but as a gay male, I still find women very attractive. For example, I think that Angelina Jolie is one of the most gorgeous women alive, and I really like her, but I have NO desire to have sex with her.
I love a woman's curves, and when a woman shows off her beauty and confidence, I will turn my head everytime. I love when a woman struts in high heels and she just glows, but once again, no desire to have sex with her.
Why? Well, even though I find her attractive, the feelings that should be there to make me want her sexually, just aren't. And when those feelings aren't there, you can't force them to be there either. I don't know why that I prefer men over women, I just know that when I'm with a man, I get those feelings that I just don't get when I'm with a woman.
It is possible to seduce a gay man or woman, it just depends on the person, and how comfortable they are with themselves.
But if someone is questioning their sexuality, it's not a good idea. That will only lead to more confusion, and hurt feelings in the long run. So if this is something you're thinking of doing, I'd say don't do it. If it is just curiousity on your part, then yeah, it is possible depending on the person.
You ought to check out the movie Chasing Amy-it's not only a pretty good movie, but it really hits the nail on the head-especially considering your question.

Answer 3

Some people (especially women) categorize themselves as gay when they are really bi because of the negative response those who are bi recieve from both the straight and gay communities. True homosexuals, however (Kinsey 6's), feel no attraction towards the opposite sex. It is a matter of personal opinion whether or not they feel negatively towards them - some are neutral, some really are revulsed. As for your question about experimentation, it is only natural to want to try everything once - I don't know why it would be called something else just because the partnership in question was "straight".
Have a pleasant day!

Answer 4

No, no, no, no, no....You're being silly but let me explain. No, gay men and women are not "repulsed" by the opposite sex. We are possibly repulsed by sex with the opposite gender. I personally do not like that "one-eyed trouser snake" I've threatened to hit a couple with a heavy object.
I've been "gay", or Happy as I like to call it, for many many years. That doesn't stop me from enjoying a man or a woman's face or body. I just choose not to act like an idiot. The only face I really care about is the face of my Best Beloved who's been my idol for the last 25 years.
You could indeed, seduce either a gay man or woman, and experiment if you choose.

Answer 5

I'm not repulsed, I can appreciate a pretty woman just like a straight man. But I have absolutely no desire to have sex with her.

Perhaps that's why so many women trust gay men to help them look good. They know there's no underlying sexual motive.

Answer 6

All my gay friends do. My girls are always commenting on hot guys and girls of course. And, the gay men usually will say a girl is pretty or comment on her designer clothing. I rarely hear them say she's hot or something.

Don't know that a lesbian can be seduced by a man or vice/versa but I think it would definitely qualify as experimentation. It's usually in a threesome rather than one on one.

Answer 7

The lesbian only looking for the prettiest woman. Just cant admit it because lesbian only like girls

Answer 8

I am a lesbian and I find people attractive...its just that women get me more than a man does...a woman appeals to me. and yeah in second part to your question..those people are called bi-sexual.

Answer 9

As a bisexual married man other sexy women do not really turn me on all though I enjoy looking, my wife turns me on and as far as women go she is it for me just a look at her hip as she is walking by is enough to have me standing at attention many times. But because I am not in a relationship with a man at the moment it is possible for many different men to turn me on just by looking at them.

Answer 10

the sight of the prettiest or the handsomest person of the opposite sex does not repel us, but it does not stir those sexual urges that would arise in the heterosexual individual. About the second part of the question, maybe you can try it to see if it works. We have our doubts though ;-)