We have been together for two years now. He is ten years older than me. He is real outgoing and I am very shy. This is our only child together. He was married previously.
2006-06-27 08:09:28 · 7 answers · asked by shy girl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I been there My husband is 9 years older than I and we had been dating a little over a year when I got pregnant with our first child. We Started fighting and I thought he didn't want me any more. Come to find out he was jealous of all the attention I was giving our child and not him he felt left out and was wanting my undivided attention. Just got to remember our husband/boyfriends are big kids themselves. Just try to devote one day of the week completely to him It worked for me Hope it does for you too
2006-06-27 08:27:34 · answer #1 · answered by girlstimes2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kids change things and having a baby is a lot of work. If he is 10 years older and has been married before he may not be ready to grow up. I don't have enough information about the relationship but I know how babies change things. If there is something you feel strongly about it's okay to fight. Don't sacrifice what is important to you to keep from fighting, believe me you'll regret it.
Blessings!
2006-06-27 15:19:01 · answer #2 · answered by crimsonwillow 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He doesn't really want to be with you and because you are shy and care a lot or love him a lot he might benefit of the situation.
Try to clear the things and sea if he still deserves your time or not!And judge with the mind not by heart!
2006-06-27 16:37:08 · answer #3 · answered by faunpas 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He doesn't want to be a father or be with you. here's some free advice don't have anymore kids with this guy. After he's gone and he will be soon if you hook up with another guy wait until you're married and you're sure he wants to be a father before you have a kid by him,
2006-06-27 15:46:41 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like maybe he wasn't ready for a family. Talk to him and find out if he's worth waiting around.
2006-06-27 15:14:36 · answer #5 · answered by shae 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He can't handle the new baby situation...give him time, be patient...some people dont like sudden changes...he might simply be stressed even if he loves you and your baby so much...give him time to adjust...:)...heads up, honey
2006-06-27 15:13:55 · answer #6 · answered by Soraya 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because men are assholes.
2006-06-27 15:14:38 · answer #7 · answered by eddysmomma 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋