So... I've been talking to this guy for years now, over the Internet. Yes, it's crazy, but I love him, and I can't get over him. A year ago, he showed interest in me, but he dropped that (probably for someone in real life-- who knows) and now I'm left hanging. What I need to know is something that works so that I can get over him, because so far nothing seems to. I'm crazy about him. He's smart, he's witty, he's just my type. The problem is, it's not reciprocated. Help?
2006-06-27 08:06:32 · 8 answers · asked by Calire 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
~well if he lives near u i think u should should meet up with him if ur gut tells u too and ur heart does. but if hes not trustworthy dont meet him its all up to u if u want to be with him then so be it but if u dont like him so much then ditch him and the thing is some people lie on the internet about wat their age is wat thier apperance is so be careful if u have seen a picture of him and anything else then trust urself but for now keep on talking to him and c wat comes ur way~
good luck,
Isabella ;)
2006-06-27 08:14:08 · answer #1 · answered by izzy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you haven't heard from him in a while...i would suggest you find some girlfriends to hang out with. I've met some great guys through my friends, friends. Even if it doesn't get to the crucial level, there's nothing wrong with having someone to hang out and laugh with. Life's too short to waste loathing...get up, get out and do something.
2006-06-27 15:15:33 · answer #2 · answered by Blaque 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to separate yourself from him, that means no more chatting. I know it's hard but you have to be strong. You will continue to be miserable as long as you converse with him. He can't give you what you want & need. Find other things to occupy your time, go out with friends, start a new hobby or volunteer somewhere. Go places with your friends where you can meet new guys in person. Good Luck to you & be strong you deserve someone who can give you what you need and return your feelings.
2006-06-27 15:14:25 · answer #3 · answered by dawn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
heres what you do you stop sulking and you go out and find some one who catches your attention the same way now it may take a while but hey if he thinks hes too good then show him your better then that but dont make it a revenge thing.
2006-06-27 15:14:42 · answer #4 · answered by Christopher L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is a very hard question .i have been in your shoes .it hurts this i know.first try to ask your self this ...why should i care for him . he doesnt want me any more .you need to try and find some friends ,and go slow in your life. try to find someone , and get on with your life ,,i did . and so can you :]
2006-06-27 15:19:25 · answer #5 · answered by cody 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
STOP think about him maybe it would help or u can tell him how u fell
god love u
2006-06-27 15:12:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
seperate yourself from him...just dont talk to him anymore...that feeling goes away with a little seperation.
2006-06-27 15:19:24 · answer #7 · answered by Ebaby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love yourself as much as you THINK you love him. You truly dont even KNOW him, let alone LOVE him........
2006-06-27 15:12:45 · answer #8 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋