when me and my wife have sex i *** to fast how can i prevent that
2006-06-27 07:55:37 · 30 answers · asked by gedwards27 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
There are condoms that numb you a little bit so you don't get excited so fast. Or pills. If you feel it's a really big problem, talk to a doctor. Lots of guys feel that way. If it's a matter of it being a new relationship or something and she just turns you on so damn much that you can't keep it in for very long, then oh well... she's hot. And that kind of longevity will come with time... just keep *******. Make sure she gets her satisfaction out of it, though. If you have trouble lasting, maybe eat her out beforehand until she orgasms so that the experience will be equally enjoyable for both of you.
2006-06-27 07:58:49 · answer #1 · answered by lizwatson109 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take things slowly and when you feel yourself about to climax, back off...masturbate before you have sex with your wife (or make that part of the experience for the two of you) as usually guys can go longer the 2nd time around...or perhaps invest in a c0ck ring...
2006-06-27 07:59:03 · answer #2 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats easy..That means you are not masturbating enough.
When you feel that you are going to come, you will need to slow the pace down, just feel her, then think something else ( take your mind off her *momentarily* ) Sweet talk her.
And then, when you feel that you are back to 1st Gear, rev it up again. This way you both enjoy for a long time.
Dont expect to get things perfect at the first 'launch', but practice makes perfect.
Bon Apetit.
2006-06-27 08:17:30 · answer #3 · answered by stillfreezing 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do it more often is right, subconciously you are so anxious and waiting for it that you blow your load as soon as you get some contact and penetration. Rubbing one beforehand takes a little more calculation, like how long will it take you to get one up again after it...cause if you rub one and she wants one but you can't get it up again cuase you just blew one...you a$$ed out. So do it more often, it'll be more relaxing for you in the long run and you'll be able to last longer
2006-06-27 08:00:58 · answer #4 · answered by yogurtsoju 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think Baseball
2006-06-27 08:06:30 · answer #5 · answered by Tiffster 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to an adult store and buy a c o c k ring. It will help u last longer.
2006-06-27 07:57:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take a break and start again. The more you do it you will get to the point that you cant get it to go soft. They tend to have a mind of their own.
2006-06-27 08:00:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to prolong foreplay.....that's what me and my man do....we "play" for at least 30 min.....that way, I get multiple orgasms in.......and then, when he is ready, we *** together really hard.....it makes for an absolutely amazing time!!
2006-06-27 07:59:56 · answer #8 · answered by honey_bear_21_1999 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think about your mother walking in on the two of you or your father-in-law or the kids or a burgalar or your pastor or a neighbor's kid or your best friend. (Two of these happened to us. It is a real buzz kill)
2006-06-27 08:06:56 · answer #9 · answered by butrcupps 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Play around for a while. Make her feel good. Take your time don't rush.
2006-06-27 07:58:35 · answer #10 · answered by clnavarro82 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋