i mean, i'm guessing it's more intense than loving a family member or something...but i see couples who have been married for while, and the love is so different than what you hear people talking about and in movies.
2006-06-27 07:49:52 · 14 answers · asked by curious 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
What's the reality of love?
2006-06-27 07:54:18 · update #1
Yes, it is wonderful. My wife and I will soon be married for thirty four years. I love her more today than I ever have. Love changes, when we first meet others or are newly wed sometimes we think we are in love. Most likely it is lust. Love is made up of many different things. Love is really what is cracked up to be when we are with the right person. Remember, love takes work and you both must work at it. Marrage is not 50/50 it is 100/100. Both partners must put all of their soul and effort into making it work and it is not easy. But, it is well worth it.
2006-06-27 07:56:25 · answer #1 · answered by soar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love to me is something that a couple can stay together but then Love isn't something I am really interested in. In movies, Love is Fantasy..but in Reality, you have to work with that person in order to maintain a real relationship in my opinion. My friend had a couple of jerks that created on her and well I told her one time that Love isn't something thats is really all cracked up to be. Its something you have to work out with your lover. Its hard but you can make it happen or just do nothing about it.
2006-06-27 07:59:11 · answer #2 · answered by RelentlessPrincess1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is cracked up to what its suppose to be with the right person that it. When I met my bf I loved him with all my heart but silly little things would cause me to break up with him 3 times and he broke up with me once. We took a break from each other for a bit when I went down south for school and realized that the love for each other needs to be shared with each other, so we got back together. He has a 8 year old daughter from another relationship before he met me and she's a handful, but he and are working together to make things work. We are now engaged and its the greatest thing ever, so love is what you make it to be.
2006-06-27 07:56:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello! my name is Rubén from Guadalajara, Jalisco México.
I love to learn English, I hope you can be my Friend!. I have 32.
About your question I think that the love is TRUE especiality when you close your eyes and when you belive in yourselve (en ti misma).
My English is not good yet but i want to learn more and more.
Bye!
2006-06-27 08:09:26 · answer #4 · answered by FUJI 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's different from person to person. some will show it like the movies do. and some just have it buried inside them. but as long the love is true and pure. that's all it matters.
2006-06-27 07:57:22 · answer #5 · answered by harmony 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Love is awesome. But it takes care and effort. It's not automatic.
2006-06-27 07:54:14 · answer #6 · answered by Big Momma Carnivore 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO, it's hard work and heart ache. You have to set your mind to a goal and then stick to it. Both of you should have the same goal in mind first.
2006-06-27 07:56:05 · answer #7 · answered by Idyllynn 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its better than the movies bc its real.
you have friendship and have so much fun.
but it takes commitment and communication.
2006-06-27 08:07:41 · answer #8 · answered by lu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nothing is like the movies silly.
They are not real.
2006-06-27 07:55:31 · answer #9 · answered by Lilly K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on who the significant other is
if your lucky, yes
2006-06-27 07:53:58 · answer #10 · answered by DanceChica03 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋