2006-06-27 07:41:28 · 36 answers · asked by thisisme 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
no
2006-06-27 07:43:49 · answer #1 · answered by Lilly K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not. Cheating would involve actually doing something with someone else. Everyone has different standards of what cheating is, and each couple has to define the boundaries for themselves. My friends like to make out when they get drunk at parties, so we kind of have a "kissing isn't cheating" rule. But thinking about cheating often leads to the act, so be careful.
2006-06-27 07:46:32 · answer #2 · answered by lizwatson109 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no it is naural and especially if it is about someone you use to love. It is not at all cheating it is that your heart was once inlove with someone and you will never forget that love. Cheating consists of actually putting yourself in to a relationship emotionally or physically with the person. I believe in emotional cheating and physical. But if you are thinking of stuff who cares we all do. Just don't voice it. it is your private thoughts that are your own and you are not acting out on anything just thinking
2006-06-27 07:58:11 · answer #3 · answered by blondiebella 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If by thinking about others you mean fantasies that you would never act on, then it is perfectly normal and healthy. If you are thinking about cheating alot and not just fantasies that enhance your sexual experience, then maybe you should look at why. Is their something going on in your relationship? And try to fix the problem by communicating with your partner. Otherwise, if it's just fantasy and your are happy in your relationship, don't worry about it. Fantasies are fun and healthy.
2006-06-27 07:49:51 · answer #4 · answered by jonny'sgirl06 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think everyone thinks about what they don't have. Day dreaming in great as long as you don't act on it.
You can't be cheating if your not:
flirting with that person, having intimate emails, touching etc... I'm sure everyone has thought about being with some Super star one time or another.
2006-06-27 08:01:01 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do not like answering questions with questions but I am going to make an exception in your case. If you were not going to cheat why would one think such damaging thoughts? Why would one not think about something good or fun with the person they are with? Duah.
2006-06-27 07:47:50 · answer #6 · answered by andyman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone has fantasies. As long as you don't ACT on them it isn't cheating. I would question your relationship though if you are always thinking about others and not thinking about your significant other.
2006-06-27 07:45:22 · answer #7 · answered by jetskichick25 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think so because if you think about others like other boys or girls.My sister thinks that if you do something behind your husbinds or wifes back that you wouldnt do around them, thats what cheating and I fully belive her
2006-06-27 07:47:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No ur not doing anything with them or telling them anything like that so no its not cheating at all. He probably does the same thing.
2006-06-27 07:45:45 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
All depends of what your are thinking about.
If you are wondering what it would be like to be in bed with them...it is.
Why....becasue the more your think about that the more likely it can happen. And I'm sure you know that is cheating.
2006-06-27 07:47:39 · answer #10 · answered by John B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your thoughts of others include having the desire to be with them intimately, yes, it is cheating... in your heart & mind.
2006-06-27 07:47:10 · answer #11 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋