he says he want to be with me forever. want me to meet his mom and want to meet my mom.
2006-06-27 07:16:26 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Meeting moms is not important at this point. If you have made up your mind just tell him. Tell him the truth. Why is it women don't want to hurt us but don't want to tell us either. Be a big gurl and tell him and afford him the same courtesy you would want if you were chasing a man that did not want you. He will be ok. I think that you must have feelings for him or you would not be trying to ease out of a situation. Take ownership and tell him for godsake so he can forget about you and get on with his life. What you are doing is worse than telling him outright and all femalse do this. Christ almighty, when will women accept that we are not going to jump off of the bridge just because you do not want to be with us. It is just an excuse to get out easy. Take your **** out of your purse and be a woman and tell him. It is just not that hard.
2006-06-27 07:34:23 · answer #1 · answered by andyman 4 · 2⤊ 3⤋
Tell him that you need sometime apart, that he's moving to fast with all the meet the family talk. Honesty is the best policy. The quicker you set him free the quicker both of you can move on. Sounds like your not only hurting him but yourself by staying somewhere you dont want to be.
2006-06-27 14:28:19 · answer #2 · answered by sxybggr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just remember leading him on, will only hurt him worse in the long run! It's hard to break someones heart, I know. Just let him know that your intentions were never to hurt him, but you are not both on the same level in this relationship. So you wouldn't want to see him get hurt even worse later on, you just feel it's best to talk about it now. Good luck... :) It will get better, you just have to get through the hard part. Bringing yourself to say it.
2006-06-27 14:26:38 · answer #3 · answered by Emily :) 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't matter what he says or what he does. If you don't love him, then you don't love him. You have to just tell him that you don't and that it is over. And make it stick. That hurts a heck of a lot less than stringing him along, allowing him to hope, and trying "not to hurt him." It's like pulling off a band aid - do it fast and sure.
2006-06-27 14:20:07 · answer #4 · answered by two 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK, so if u don't luv him den u should go wit some1 else. I waz in da same kinda thing but den I said 2 myself dat I need 2 move on cuz he probably does luv me alot but he will eventually move on an 4get bout me some day.
2006-06-27 14:23:46 · answer #5 · answered by Bel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do it now - yes, he's gonna be hurt, but its better to do it quickly than to let it drag on and on. Don't lead him on anymore, just tell him you don't feel the same way towards him and be on your way.
2006-06-27 14:20:36 · answer #6 · answered by thersa33 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you dont want to hurt him then dont dump him. Instead stay with him and be miserable. Do it for your country dear.
2006-06-27 14:25:11 · answer #7 · answered by Mean Carleen 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be open. Say it isn't working. Do it now. It will be better in the long run. Don't be a coward.
2006-06-27 14:26:02 · answer #8 · answered by Big Momma Carnivore 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him how you feel and that you don't want to be with him anymore because you don't want to hurt him
2006-06-27 14:24:36 · answer #9 · answered by ♥*♥Bahamian Gal♥*♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just do it and don't try to be friends after.
2006-06-27 14:46:57 · answer #10 · answered by cheech_love 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋