What do u do when ur husband eyes up passing girls...u know that he deeply loves u and that u are in a very secure loving marriage/relationship, bt he still looks at other women...and u dont like it - how can that be stopped?!
2006-06-27 07:05:03 · 17 answers · asked by Miss Terious 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Assert yourself...if it makes you uncomfortable, he should respect your wishes.
2006-06-27 07:06:56 · answer #1 · answered by Call me AL 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a people watcher. I like to check out what everyone is wearing and what they are doing. There is nothing wrong with looking. It is tacky for a man to do that right in front of his woman, but it's human nature. It doesn't sound like your marriage is too secure if you're worried about him just looking at someone else. Maybe you should change something with yourself, so that you will get and keep his attention.
2006-06-27 14:13:00 · answer #2 · answered by Littlemissy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why try to stop it,it's natural.He loves you,but appreciates the beauty of nature.
My wife will even point out scantily clad or endowed women.
Her best line was one day I was having a good look at a woman and she asked if the woman had something on that was mine.lol
2006-06-27 14:24:15 · answer #3 · answered by beenthere 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh hes a man. My bf does it too although he tries to look away real fast when I catch him when I dont even care most of the time lol. I'd rather have em do it in front of me than be with other people talking about them like ''damn look at her man, wow'' and etc...It's not that big of a deal because hes not cheating right? And coming home with you so...
this is really something you might just have to live with lol.Explain how it makes you feel to him though...maybe hell stop? lol
hope I helped :)
2006-06-27 14:12:59 · answer #4 · answered by Fearfully & wonderfully made 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't worry about it. It's just a thing he does, I think guys just do that. I know that I myself will check out a guy even when I'm in a committed relationship. I can see a good looking guy and think he's hot, and not have any desire for him because I already have what I want.
2006-06-27 14:12:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know from personal experience that if your guy is looking at other women, you're not in such a secure relationship. You need to talk to him. It is absolutely wrong for him to be looking at anybody but you!
2006-06-27 14:12:58 · answer #6 · answered by Susan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's a natural think for a guy to do that and I don't think it can be stopped. if you know you are in a secure relationship you should not even have to ask this question.
2006-06-27 14:12:38 · answer #7 · answered by Angie's mom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him, look i understand that you are a guy and that you are going to be attracted to other women and want to look at them but please take into consideration that when i am with you it is not the proper time to be looking at them, you should be looking at me the person that you married. and tell him that when you are not with him fine but dont do it when i am with you out of respect for me and our relationship as husband and wife. if he cant understand that then your going to have to tell him that it is unexeptable and that you will not tolerate it at all and that if he does not stop doing it you might feel to take further actions and decide where you want to be in life, with or without him.
2006-06-27 14:11:03 · answer #8 · answered by Blonds Rock 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can be secure in your relationship and let him admire beautiful women or you can politely ask him to stop and explain how his appreciation of beautiful women makes you feel.
2006-06-27 14:07:20 · answer #9 · answered by shae 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It can't be stopped, not should it be. I'd be more concerned if my fiance stopped looking. If you are really all that secure in your relationship, him checking out some other woman would not bother you.
2006-06-27 14:07:59 · answer #10 · answered by thersa33 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am very confident and my bf loves that about me. I don't care for beautiful woman around, even if they are checking him out, because I know that I am drop dead gorgeaus and my bf loves me and me only. They can look as much as they want but he is mine. I trust him just as he trust me. It goes both ways ladies.
Good luck.
2006-06-27 14:14:54 · answer #11 · answered by Blunt 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋