My wife and I are parting ways. I've promised to put a CD-Player in her car for the last 2 years, and flaked. After we decided to part ways, but still living with me, but out of town.....I decided to put in the CD-Player to keep my promise and help her. When she got back, I told her, and she flipped out and instead of thanking me, she said that now her car is more likely to be broken into. I'm going to have her old tapedeck put back in on my day off per her request.
I was shocked that she was not only not appreciative, but was nasty to boot. She's been nasty about almost everything.
I'm considering not having any (I mean ANY) contact with her for 3 months. She is incapable of being nice right now. I don't want to take her fallout to her kids, or the next relationship.
2006-06-27 06:45:11 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
just don't let the having no contact with her include the kids. like u said, it's not their fault.
my lawyer told me that one person always goes crazy during a divorce, just don't let it drive you crazy too!!!
2006-06-27 06:52:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand that yuo are trying to be nice to her for the sake of the kids and yur right to see them. I say that play by her rules for now until you get a divorce, until then she will have the strings to manipulate you because she has the kids and if you don't play Mr. Nice she can be Mrs. Nasty and keep you from seeing the kids.
Work on the divorce and keep on being a gentleman, and once you have a Court document with an specific parenting plan..then the heck with her... since you don't have to put up with her tantrums anymore and you will be there for the kids and the kids only. Good luck
2006-06-27 07:04:18 · answer #2 · answered by Blunt 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are getting divorced do you really expect her to be nice. I mean there are amicable divorces, but amicable can only go so far. This is still a divorce and her emotions are still a wreck. Her life is changing and she has to adapt to this. She was suppose to be with you until she was old and grey and now that is not going to happen. So she will occasionally have her emotional outbursts of anger, rage,sadness and sorrow. She is grieving the death of a big part of her life. Even if the divorce is amicable.
2006-06-27 06:51:56 · answer #3 · answered by tiff 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can't be nice to rudeness. ignore her and deal with the kids if they are Yours. other than that to hell with her.
2006-06-27 06:56:18 · answer #4 · answered by renosgirl2006 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋