I am serious about relationship. I don't play around. I never cheated on my ex-bfs. I try my best to make them happy all the time. But what I get back everytime is that " I am not the right man for u." What do men want in their lives? Do they want someone who doesn't love them that much, so they feel challenging?
2006-06-27 06:28:27 · 7 answers · asked by abc 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You might be looking at the wrong types of guys. Trust me, there are many of us out there who want an honest, serious girlfriend. Unfortunately, there are also a lot of guys who don't.
2006-06-27 06:32:00 · answer #1 · answered by chryxz 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well to be completely honest, maybe you might be coming on a bit too strong? I dont know you, so this is kind of answering in the blind. The reason that it seems hard for you, and easy for others is simply this.. you're YOU... everything looks different when its you.
But candidly from my own experience with women these things will make a man run... or at least it does me!
1. Possesiveness
2. Smothering
3. Getting too serious... too soon...
4. Clingy people
5. Needy people.
6. Bossy people
Not sure about your situation of course.. but take a look back at your past relationships and see if there are any common threads between them.. try to learn from your past.. its the only thing we have to learn from.
best of luck
JB
2006-06-27 13:37:04 · answer #2 · answered by Jonny B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do not understand it either. As a man, I just want a woman that would not play around or cheat and wants to be my and only my partner to share in life but where she is I do not know. Two wives cheated on me and I have never cheated on a woman. I am beginning to think that they want a man that they have to watch like a hawk. I like you would give anything to find one dedicated to being a partner where we would not have the time to question the others fidelity and focus on sharing and doing things together. Maybe one day we will. Good luck to you I hope you find him.
2006-06-27 13:37:09 · answer #3 · answered by andyman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe your looking or trying too hard.... Are you insecure? Men do not like that.... Be ok with yourself first...Be independent, live your life for you and like it, then you will probably meet someone when you least expect it and it will be right..... You don't need a man you want one to share your life with, that's the way it is supposed to be.... Men always want what they can't have... Be right with yourself first and then you'll meet Mr. Right!!! Good luck sweetie....
2006-06-27 13:53:54 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to check yourself, what are you looking for in a man and WHERE ARE YOU LOOKING, that will answer alot of questions you have. Trust that the right man will find you but if you have a strong guard up or are to particular and picky than he will walk right by and you'll lose out
2006-06-27 13:31:53 · answer #5 · answered by uptownsgurl 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
men want sex and plus your trying to hard to please the and thats a turn off
2006-06-27 13:33:03 · answer #6 · answered by Im so bad you should spank me 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're probably pretty ugly.
2006-06-27 13:30:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋