i have a friend that only talks to me if she wants somthing i want to tell her that we should not be friends no more if she is going to ask for my stuff
help
2006-06-27 06:23:16 · 4 answers · asked by thisisdanielle911 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
she doesn't sound like a "friend" at all. you should tell her that she's not being a good friend to you, and it's not fair. tell her that you don't want to waste your time in a friendship that she is basing on your willingness to give her things. i hope that might help.
if it would make you uncomfortable telling her something like this face to face, do it alternatively, say through email, phone or a letter.
2006-06-27 06:29:30 · answer #1 · answered by schuyler 2 · 6⤊ 0⤋
I have a similar friend, whom I now call an associate. She only comes around when she can get something from me. I've learned to deal with her with a long handle spoon. We still talk but everything is at a limit. She can not borrow from me and when I give her things she pay for them, unless I want to give. She doesn't come around as much anymore, but at least I still have my dignity.
2006-06-27 21:22:58 · answer #2 · answered by inneedofhelp 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is the best thing for you to do. Apparently she is not worthy enough to be called a friend in the first place.
2006-06-27 13:26:39 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have found that ignoring people like that is the best solution.
Eventually they will move on to someone else.
2006-06-27 13:27:31 · answer #4 · answered by Raistlin H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋