I am 36 and I met this girl last week at a bar we hit it off ,she told me that she is boy down there.
This blue me away, but we have so much in comen
One thing lead to another, and we did it all night and I want her more now
I feel like a new man and I want to show her to all my freinds
BU I dont think I am gay
WHAT DO I do now
2006-06-27 06:20:43 · 50 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
SHE is here with me now and we are reading your answers
PS> I love her DDs and I love to do it all
she make fire work when we kiss
2006-06-27 06:41:49 · update #1
helpless you are into alot by your other questions. Diapers, plastic pants and now you say you are not gay but you are on this site all the time. Hmmmmm
http://godmademegay.com
2006-06-27 07:06:16 · answer #1 · answered by azgraywolf143 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
After reading all the answers so far on this particular question, I would like to answer your question fairly and with a lot of compassion. There is nothing wrong with you having feelings for this individual. Honesty was presented to you up front by this individual who's beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Regardless of what's down there, your love and compassion for this individual is what is truly important. You may have a difficult time with explaning this to your family or friends, but it's your life and that is what is important. Be good to him/her and always show respect and be honest if you feel something isn't right. Good luck and best wishes.
2006-06-27 06:49:28 · answer #2 · answered by Derek L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Having a same sex sexual intercourse does not mean you are gay. It was a new experience and you may fell relieved from social pressure. But don´t mistake love with sex. There are many ways to show love without physical contact. You probably had an emptiness, an unsatisfied need that was partially filled and then you let yourself go along. You probably had bad luck with girls or a recent deception, or worst, never had one loving you. Man and woman are complementary, there is nothing more beautiful than making love to a girl you love.
Just remember it is a man you are screwing for Christ sake!
Have you two considered professional help, maybe a shrink?
Being gay will not take you to hell, but your bun will surely burn!
2006-06-27 07:34:10 · answer #3 · answered by nitsuga00917 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is that a question. All I can say is good on ya lad. I agree you're not gay just a little queer (in a good way). Hope you two continue to have fun.
I'm curious do you think this will progress past the lust stage and develope a more long term relationship? At some point you're going to have to make some serious decisions good luck.
Oh, Ignore the hatas
2006-06-27 07:47:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stuart Wrote:
"If you're having a sexual relationship with a member of your gender, you are, indeed, gay."
Aaah, but if the person looks like a female and acts like a female, then it is only her sex that is male and her gender that is female.
It's all about the gender perception, baby, not the sex.
No, you might not be gay. If you are interested in her female side and not just her male plumbing, you are still straight. You might enjoy having sex with her male parts because she presents an interesting oppourtunity for you - she has all the looks of a female, and thus appeals to your hormones and rational side, but has the plumbing of a male, which means you can experiment with what you, a straight man, wouldn't normally get to because you wouldn't likely lie with a true man willingly.
So, yes. In all probability you are still straight, albeit curious like many others are and would be too.
2006-06-27 06:27:01 · answer #5 · answered by Envirogal612 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't matter if you are gay or not, just enjoy her!
Forget about the words attached to it. They will probably only confuse you and thereby distract you from what this is all about. Meeting someone that you find a loving and interesting person.
Your question puts a smile on my face because you seem very openminded in this.
I think it's great that you like her so much that you just don't mind she is a shemale.
Just enjoy the good time together! I wish you two the best.
2006-06-27 08:03:30 · answer #6 · answered by Bloed 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Show her to all your friends! Her status "down there" can be your little secret, your inside joke of "they have no idea". If you really love her, then go for it! it doesn't make you gay. (Not so far as I'm concerned, anyway.) It just means you found someone who happens to be transgendered. Love is love, gay, straight, or something in between.
2006-06-27 06:31:03 · answer #7 · answered by Syrena 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You enjoy each other with passion and respect until either you grow old together or the fire fades.
Who cares whether you're gay or straight, bi or bewildered? Just enjoy what you've got.
2006-06-27 07:16:35 · answer #8 · answered by unclefrunk 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey dude don't sweat it. whats really important is how you feel towards that person. don't think of years of bliss but one day at a time.remember you think your not gay. maybe it's because your not attracted to macho men so much, so big deal. many men i know are happy with their relationships. even if they are not gay the way most people think of gays.
2006-06-27 16:31:57 · answer #9 · answered by rpm53 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes u r. Ur gay, pretending ur not. A she male is a male, and when two males have sex its a homosexual relationship. Maybe you still like girls too, but that would make you a half a homo (bisexual).
2006-06-27 13:11:27 · answer #10 · answered by jack f 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You probably not or might be half gay or just it happens, but for sure you will be one as soon as she gets you, it does not take long to try and then you will feel same as her.
Enjoy
2006-06-27 06:35:52 · answer #11 · answered by bigonegrande 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋