my BF treats me good and this new guy treats me like an ANGEL GODDESS. what do i do...so confused!!!!
this new guy we'll call him bob does things for me that my BF would never do and i think i am inlove with him only after 3 months of dating. my BF amd i have been dating for about 2 years and i never said tohim i was in love with him just that i loved him.....what to do what to do!!!!
2006-06-27 05:41:30 · 10 answers · asked by Trisha Pratt MA 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
go with the guy you like more
2006-06-27 05:51:28 · answer #1 · answered by choochi_choxie_bffl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should ask yourself... "What's my concept of love?" Clearly, people throw the word "love" around too loosely just like confetti at a parade. How old are you? Maybe your too young and will need to mature a little more before understanding that love is not about comparing one person to another. There will always be someone who might seem to be nicer, treat you better, or provide you with some other kind of excitement for a while. You mentioned that this guy does things for you that your boyfriend doesn't and treats you like a angel.
Well...of course he does, it's so easy for him to provide that because it's all so new and kinda "off limits" The grass ALWAYS looks greener on the other side (for now).
Suppose this new guy winds having some serious issues that your current BF doesn't have...then what? Please! slow your roll... Take time to cool your heels. I'm sure you wouldn't like it if your BF was hooking up with someone behind your back.
At the very least be honest and break it off with your current BF based on the fact that you're not interested any longer because a new man's in town. Just remember... you may wind up being in love with this person (or some one else) and they may leave you for the same reason.
2006-06-27 06:07:09 · answer #2 · answered by 247 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's all up to you but i sincerely hope you don't make the wrong decision. Most of the times before a new guy hooks you up, he CAN REALLY try his best and by all means to treat you well. But when you're his, things start to change and gradually you'll get upset and compare with the great things he used to do for you. Eventually, you'll be heading for a break-up. Well, the choice is definitely yours, we're just onlookers and speaking based on your hearsay. If your bf treats you well, you shd be glad enough to have him. What I personally feel is that you had a 2yr r/s and maybe you're alittle bored with your routine guy and you happen to meet a new guy and subconciously want a new injection to pump into your life and here goes this fantastic dude we're talking abt. Think abt it carefully, don't hurt your bf and worst still, get yourself hurt in the end. Most importantly is don't fall into a pithole without realising the consequences of all have to bear. I also wonder if the guy courts you because he just wants to win someone's else gf and gain himself some confidence and boosts his ego. No offence for saying so. Just think it over seriously before jumping into a new r/s which you may regret. If your bf is really not as gd as the new dude, then i suggest you can really take off your mind and lean to the new one. All the best. Feel free to chat with me again. Gd luckz!!
2006-06-27 05:55:50 · answer #3 · answered by PoshBerries 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is bf a real bf or just some guy you been dating for along time?
If real BF break off with Bob until you decide about BF
If just dating both, then either continue on or decide which one you like best.
2006-06-27 05:51:03 · answer #4 · answered by James A 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look baby i feel u cause i in the same situation. The only thing i can tell u is play your cards right. You are a temple and you should go for what you feel is right. You only live once and if you settle for only what you already have you may never find that something/someone that could give you something that you never thought you can receive.
And that may just be real love
2006-06-27 06:17:04 · answer #5 · answered by wanna know 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i had that problem... i was with my boyfriend for 2 years.. and then i met this other guy... i thought i might have loved... me and my boyfriend were on a break so i was with the other one... and he treated me good and everything... but the more i thought about it i didnt know if i was just pushin myself to love him... In the end i thought 2 years... and i know i really love him and that theres no way i could live with out him! and a couple weeks... and i lived with out him for ever and im sure i could do it again... I ended up back with the guy of 2 years.. I love him more than ever and no one could ever take his place! The other guy... well we were better off as friends.. and things were alot better that way.. Soo you just need to ask yourself... Who do i love, and who can i Not live without!.... I hope you find your answer
2006-06-27 06:04:49 · answer #6 · answered by Caitlin12 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I my opinion I say go with the best friend cause he will probubly be there if somethin goes wrong and know how to handle the situation.And the 3month guy has compation because of the long realtionship you have with your friend.Guys come and go but friends stay forever
2006-06-27 05:50:35 · answer #7 · answered by windy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl I am going through a smilar problem. I suggest you think about what your boyfriend did you get you.Then after doing that think really hard to yourself is this new man just putting on a act to get me? And if your boyfriend did some of the same things to get you then you need to sit down and let him know that what he did to get you he need to continue to do to keep you.
2006-06-27 06:08:07 · answer #8 · answered by Desire 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Follow your heart but also ask your BF if he thinks the relationship is working.:) good luck
2006-06-27 05:50:47 · answer #9 · answered by Tinka 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like someones heart is going to be broken :[
2006-06-27 05:56:40 · answer #10 · answered by Kyle W 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋