Ok I was with my current gf for a year and a half (together 11 months before she went away for college). I came and visit her every 2-3 weeks and would talk on msngr or on the phone evryday. We did have some arguments but were still in love and happy when together.
Well around march we both started getting emails from someone saying that she was cheating on me and that she never loved me. She and I both informed each other when we got these emails and i told her that I thought one of her friends was sending it because she told me that he once said he liked her.
Well in early April she came home and told me that she thought it was better if we took a break because she was getting stressed from school and other things and just needed time to priortize things. Well the next weekend she invited me to her programs end of year party and I found out she slept with this guy twice since we broke up. The next day we found out he was the one sending the emails.
2006-06-27 05:39:41 · 4 answers · asked by CJ B 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Anyway shw said she liked us both but that he was moving and being a jerk and that she needed time but wanted to get back with me.
Anyway the last month and half she has been home and we have since gotten back together. She tells me that she was scared then and went to her friend. She says she has and still does think about me and her and having a future together and that she promises nothing like this will ever happen again and i believe her.
My problem is that I sometimes get massive headaches when I think about what happened. I mean they have become less frequent lately but still they occur. Should I tell her about them and maybe get checked out and should i continue to have hope in our relationship. I can tell she loves me and I know I love her.
Any advice would be great.
Thanks.
2006-06-27 05:44:15 · update #1
Just to clarify she never said that she wanted to get back together because he was moving. Its because she knows how much i care for her and that i would do anything for her and while she was scared about school and commitment and how fast we were moving before, she realizes that she wants everything she was scared of before.
2006-06-27 05:46:15 · update #2
I know she is not seeing the guy because he lives near there school and thats a while away.
I can understand why people say once a cheat always a cheat, but they also say if you have something set it free and if it comes back, you know it was meant to be.
I know that she cares and i believe in giving people second chances, my real problem is trying to get rid of the headaches and whether or not to tell her.
2006-06-27 05:48:04 · update #3
I know she is not seeing the guy because he lives near there school and thats a while away.
I can understand why people say once a cheat always a cheat, but they also say if you have something set it free and if it comes back, you know it was meant to be.
I know that she cares and i believe in giving people second chances, my real problem is trying to get rid of the headaches and whether or not to tell her.
2006-06-27 05:48:08 · update #4
if shes really sincere about the whole thing and she has proved to you that she loves you and all that then give her one last chance... thats a big thing to get over...She needs to gain her trust back!... Thats a really hard thing to go through... At the time she was probably questioning her love.. she was probably a little scared of comittment and all that stuff... so she ran off to make sure everything was going to be ok and to clear all doubts... even thought going to you and working things out with you would have been a lot better!... I think you need to talk to her about it.. tell her what your thinking/feeling and let her know that you need to know that something like that wont happen again!... sorry.. i hope you feel better
2006-06-27 06:17:52 · answer #1 · answered by Caitlin12 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
will what you do in the night always comes out in the light the truth always comes out now you know what kind of person she is you need to just let her o if she really love you she wouldn't lie to you like that and she only told you twice that's all you no about you need to just let it burn she maybe still is seeing that guy
2006-06-27 12:45:01 · answer #2 · answered by ♥*♥Bahamian Gal♥*♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to walk away and find someone that's going to appreciate and respect you. Obviously she doesn't.
2006-06-27 12:44:17 · answer #3 · answered by purpleama456 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
KICK HER TO THE CURB AND FIND SOMEONE WORTHWHILE
2006-06-27 12:43:20 · answer #4 · answered by JULIE 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋