Love places you in the most vunerable place. It leaves you completely open and unprotected. Your heart is on your sleeve. Hate is the place you go because for some reason we feel that it protects us. Both are so strong, generally its to my understanding they are the same because it still means you have a connection to that person.
2006-07-08 14:47:48
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answered by Anonymous
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Love often ends the way it does because love always feels like a miracle, for only a miracle could make one feel this way, right? Love always seems unique, like no one else had ever discovered it before. If you are heart broken a very short and very small book called "The Prophet" by Khalil Gabran is a life changing experience,especially if your heart is still broken. I guess when you give your heart away it is not your heart anymore.Love does have a life all its own. Sometime you just adjust. Logic like Time heals all wounds, and; this too shall pass, just isn't understood by a heart in love, even a betrayed heart. If you are just blue over a relationship you knew was doomed from the beginning,then skip the book.But if your heart is truly broken then there is no better therapy. You can read it in a matter of minutes,but you can not read it without tears. Lots of luck.
2006-06-27 13:00:41
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answered by stan ford 3
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Any time we lose something or someone special it usually results in tears that eminate from a broke heart. There is such a fine line between love and hate that often times a broken heart does not know the difference.
2006-06-27 12:50:41
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answered by andyman 4
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The tears are because you loved that person unconditionally, You never would have imagined that something like this could have happened to you! The hatred is because you can't stand the thought of him/her being with someone else! It really is not hate, but you don't want them to know that so you act as if it is, it is mainly heartache & jealously!!!!
2006-07-07 14:36:33
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answered by bigred 4
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Because love and hate are both very strong emotions. It's hard to go from a positive strong emotion (like love) and not swing all the way to the negative and equally strong emotion (hate).
And when love ends, you're disappointed beyond words.
2006-06-27 12:50:04
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answered by Kaia 7
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Because sometimes what you thought was love was just lust or infatuation. After all the fireworks that happen in the beginning you realize that you have nothing in common with this other person. Sometimes life just happens and relationships end. In the beginning there are red lights and warning signs but you ignore them because you are "in love" and hey "you can change them". Reality hits eventually and it is not always pretty.
2006-06-27 12:44:40
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answered by New York Mama 3
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There is a very fine line between love and hate Hun
in most relationships there is always one person getting hurt not very often do you get a case were people split on good terms
respect
shaz
2006-06-27 13:21:59
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answered by sharon B 4
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Some people don't like change or to be rejected. The way they deal with that is hate and or tears. It's a shame, but that's the way life is. You just have to be strong and move on with your life.
2006-06-27 12:41:13
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answered by doglady 5
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Mine ended with my tears cuz I found out he'd been screwing the same woman he had cheated on me with for years and he again was sleeping with both of us at the same time. Even after he filed for divorce he was wanting me and I was stupid believing all his lies as usual. And for him it ended with hatred for me cuz I called to tell the other woman that he was still sleeping with him and she got angry at him. Then he no longer was getting his cake and eating it too! So he trys to take the kids from me and now I am hating!!
2006-07-06 05:41:43
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answered by cecimad 2
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Because of the thin line between love and hate. Only in love does one make herself/himself vulnerable. You hate to be vulnerable to someone that you don't love with the same passion that you loved them during the beginning of your relationship.
2006-06-27 13:25:57
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answered by dixie_til_i_die 5
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