she never knew I liked him and now i can't find the courage to tell her. What can I do?
2006-06-27 05:35:59 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
tell her before she finds out form someone else. if it is her brother, she will upset if you do not tell her yourself.
with the other girl, well, u liked him first so u just need to go for him! but make sure it is ok with his sis first. the ask him out before the other girl can get to it.
2006-06-27 05:38:00 · answer #1 · answered by efraevo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should have spoken up 4 or 5 years ago and not on yahoo. To the guy you like!
If you didn't have the courage to tell the guy than how can you expect yourself to have the courage to speak up to your friend.
2006-06-27 05:40:21 · answer #2 · answered by jeezmeneti66 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My Suggestion,
which one you love most, your best friend or your best friend's brother?
If you love your best friend most, you should give up on your love, support her and gave her courage too.
but, If you love your best friend's brother, just tell your best friend, that you love him too, and you can be a love rival with her, and let the man decide which one from both of you that he like most.
If you love both, It's very hard to decide, so be honest to her is more 'not that painful' then you keep it secret all the time and she will tell her feeling to you everyday, and make you 'in pain' to hear her love story goes.
2006-06-27 05:56:12 · answer #3 · answered by laurensius 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your best friend, she will understand. If you discovered your best friend's brother first then your other best friend came along, there's no harm in telling her that you liked him for 4 to 5 years. She'll back off or May the best women wins.
2006-06-27 05:42:36 · answer #4 · answered by tonygayles 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is a good friend, then i think you need to sit down and have a good honest talk with her, explain your feelings, I'm sure she will understand, you also need to find out how the guy feels, he might like you too, and he might just want your friend as a mate or he might like her and just want you as a mate, one way or the other you need to find out, and ask yourself how you will feel if your friend starts going out with him, will it destroy your friendship with both of them. If she is a good mate, she will understand your feelings, if she don't, then she isn't a very good friend.
2006-06-27 05:55:08 · answer #5 · answered by Boom Boom 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she's your best friend you can tell her that you like the same guy! If she freaks out over this then she isn't a good friend! Can't two friends agree that they like a guy with out loosiing a friendship? Me and my friend can we agree all the time! :) Good luck.
2006-06-27 05:39:00 · answer #6 · answered by May 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well tell your best friend about the whole situation, if u want, I could tell her for u. lol
2006-06-27 05:38:19 · answer #7 · answered by thelooneylife 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u dont exactly need to tell her just if u get the chance try to ask her brother to help u eith ur hw at ur house or somewere ur bfs cant interfear and maybe hell see thagt u like him and react back
then after that maybe shell figure it out and i doubt shell get mad
2006-06-27 05:38:44 · answer #8 · answered by limelight64 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why do people do this, whine whine cry, i liked him for years, and now, only because i feel threatened, will i finally divulge my feelings. if you have not said anything for that long, then its your own fault. if you liked him as much as you say, you would have said something. if your feelings are so strong, you would not have wanted to be without him, and you would have spoke up.
2006-06-27 05:40:34 · answer #9 · answered by Blonda 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must tell her, especially if you plan on acting on it. Keeping it a secret will only cause resentment on your part as she talks about him more and more.
2006-06-27 05:38:43 · answer #10 · answered by It's Keeanya 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋