There's this really mean kid that no on likes, but for graduation nobody clapped for him when he went up to get his diploma, and I was all happy for a second because I felt like he deserved it, but then he looked really sad and I felt really bad, and if it happend again I would clap, but what should I do now??
2006-06-27 05:33:42 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
A kind word will do the trick, whatever medium you wanna use is up to you. Soft answers turn away wrath but harsh words stir up anger.
That kid is mean because he has self-esteem issues. Just help him feel better about himself.
2006-06-27 05:38:45 · answer #1 · answered by sassy_sexy_honey 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you considered it 'fair' not to clap when he was presented, why should you change your mind after the event. However, if you thought it was 'unfair' at the time and remained quiet to be one of the gang, you owe him an apology and should either say it to him openly or write him a note.................
2006-06-27 05:38:10 · answer #2 · answered by thomasrobinsonantonio 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Send him a congratulations card with a nice note.
If you don't think you want to be friends in the future, then that is enough.
2006-06-27 05:35:32 · answer #3 · answered by RDHamm 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well... You can bond with him if you really want to, I mean that would be nice! But it isn't that you have to, just next time make sure you don't insult people that way.
2006-06-27 05:39:01 · answer #4 · answered by Liza 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
congratulale him on his graduation. It is a big accomplishment even if he IS mean. He may be nice to you in the future.
2006-06-27 05:37:43 · answer #5 · answered by Dark Martha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
send him a card and a boquet . Ur response wud surely bring something good in him :)
2006-06-27 06:41:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is there anything that you can do?? You can maybe try to reach him and be his friend. If he doesnt want your friendship then there is nothing else you can do.
2006-06-27 06:34:32 · answer #7 · answered by boricua_chick_21 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Send him a nice card, and tell him how proud of him you are.
2006-06-27 05:36:31 · answer #8 · answered by Collin R 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You did the right thing. Go and tell him why everyone did what they did.
2006-06-27 05:46:35 · answer #9 · answered by ag_iitkgp 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there's nothing you can the past is the past and cannot be altered for good or ill.
2006-06-27 05:38:04 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋