I am somewhat ashamed of this. I need some advice.
2006-06-27 05:31:11 · 23 answers · asked by Diva 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
There is no shame in being who you are. You have obviously already thought about the idea that you may be bisexual or a lesbian. First off I always like to mention that The gay community is not only accepting but being accepted more and more every day. You can live a normal happy life the way you are. I knew I was gay when I was 13 and I haven't looked back. My life is turning out just great. At this stage in what you are dealing with I suggest you contact the local gay teen support group, just yahoo for one in your area one is bound to be within a pretty short distance of you no matter where you are. They will help you come to terms with what you are and help you get on to your happy normal life. I wish you well, don't worry.
2006-06-27 06:25:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 0⤋
No. once you first commence having sex (inspite of the age) - or purely having sex with a sparkling individual - you've a tendency to have it plenty. It doenst propose you're addicted. you in straight forward words love the relaxing of all of it because its new. have self assurance me, i became like that too even as i became 16. properly, I married that guy and that i'm now 21. we do no longer have sex just about that a lot anymore. this is extra like once each 2 weeks - partly because we've a a million 3 hundred and sixty 5 days old now. yet, its no longer a sex habit. this is purely the delight in it being new.
2016-11-29 20:01:04 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You r confuse now!
Maybe around of u ( ur friends ) always talk about guys and tell u how the imagine to having the sex with their fav guys and u cannot feel it!
U think that u r stranger and alone in this world with the worst feeling to the other girl... u think that u r alien!
No girl! U just confuse why u feel like that! But dun worry when you grow up, u will know it is normal & u r lesbian
2006-06-27 07:03:23 · answer #3 · answered by lazuardi.sepi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is totally normal. Trust me, even at 16, hormones are still raging, and raging hormones can screw with your thoughts. I have those kinds of thoughts every day, but it doesn't mean I'll act on them. Try not to be ashamed, but at the same time, remember that these thoughts will happen now and again, just less frequently as you get older.
2006-06-27 06:14:36 · answer #4 · answered by Syrena 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is so normal. I'm twenty and have had thoughts of what it would be like to fool around with another girl. I'm not going to act on my thoughts. Don't be ashamed. I don't let anyone know, maybe for the time being keep this to yourself.
2006-06-27 05:36:24 · answer #5 · answered by drea_1078 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as you are not obessessing over it I think you're OK. We live in a society in which we are bombarded with images of female beauty and sexuality so it's probably not unusual for you to have these thoughts. Being young you are most likely surrounded by young pretty girls most days in school and that feeds into your thoughts. Your thoughts are natural don't feel ashamed.
2006-06-27 08:11:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it's normal. It's all a part of the growing sexual awareness within you. You don't have to do anything - except give up on the guilt and enjoy the thoughts. It's not as if you have to act on them. Even if you did, there is nothing wrong with it.
2006-06-27 05:39:43 · answer #7 · answered by unclefrunk 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perfectly normal...nothing to be ashamed of. You're only 16...ur just curious.
2006-06-27 06:34:42 · answer #8 · answered by It'sMe23 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope, its not normal. Ask youself what is influencing your thoughts? Is it something you really want, or did someone plant a seed in ur head?
You are young and impressionable. You are a target and the gay community sees you out there.
I bet someone did this to you, whether you chose to admit it or not.
2006-06-27 13:14:04 · answer #9 · answered by jack f 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are ashamed its normal at first,but you'll get use to it.you can try to fight the feelings but that might stress you out.just take one day at a time and go from there.don't let anyone make the decisions for you.if you're bi-let it be.
2006-06-27 05:40:23 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋