I love my boyfriend very much and sometimes we talk about having a baby but there are two things that bother me. (1)He already has a kid with his ex-girlfriend (she's a biatch!) and (2)He has a female friend and they call and text each other all the time and he gets mad when I check his phone. Am I wrong to be bothered by these things?
2006-06-27 05:23:23 · 8 answers · asked by Pink Princess 6 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
No you're not wrong to be bothered by those things. If he has nothing to hide, he shouldn't get mad when you check his phone. I wouldn't worry much about him having a child with another woman, though..there's lots of people out there that have children with people other than the ones they are currently with. I'm going to say follow your heart in this situation..do u honestly think the guy would cheat? Good luck..!
2006-06-27 05:29:52 · answer #1 · answered by ♫Joshua's~♥~Girl♫ 5 · 6⤊ 0⤋
Just a piece of advise. If you do get involved with this guy and have a baby YOU AND YOUR BABY WILL NEVER BE THE FIRST ONE OR THE MOST IMPORTANT THING because he already has one, not to mention the fact that you will have to deal with his EX FOR THE REST OF YOUR LIFE and share birthdays and child support. So you answer your own question, you are insecure, follow your instincts, if it does not feel right is because there is something wrong!
2006-06-27 05:33:16 · answer #2 · answered by Lilly 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you shouldnt check his phone cause that means you are not trusting of him. You may tell yourself different but in reality you dont. And if you two are serious about having a baby, then maybe you should think about marriage first, not that i'm one to talk, i'm not married and pregnant, but i wasnt planning on it. So if you see that he is willing to commit to you by marriage then, you should know in your heart that you can trust him and stop checking his phone, cause you might see something you dont want to or might misunderstand... good luck
2006-06-27 05:30:49 · answer #3 · answered by Katie not telling 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to tell your boyfriend how you feel, and he has done nothing to make your fears of insecurity go away, then he doesn't love you as he says. Love is when you put the other person' feelings above your own. Thus, you feel secure and not jealous.
If that doesn't happen, kick him to the curb.
2006-06-27 05:36:02 · answer #4 · answered by Michael S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have every right to be bothered by these things. Apparently you are not at the top of his priorities. This guy seems to have baggage. Instead of whining- profit from other people's mistakes and move on.
2006-06-27 05:27:41 · answer #5 · answered by gqenoel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him about boundaries.
tell him you just love him too much to have him cheating on you, if he is.
i would say if he already has a kid then things might not work out..
2006-06-27 05:29:04 · answer #6 · answered by clevah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in my opinion... ex's are ex's he broke up with them for a reason. so why would he need to be talking to them again? thats just me but i dont think that you are being overly jealous.
2006-06-27 05:28:14 · answer #7 · answered by FRAUD FINDER 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
JEALOUSY WILL GET U NO WHERE IN A RELATIONSHIP
2006-06-27 05:26:58 · answer #8 · answered by JULIE 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋