Me and my boyfriend and have 2 mutual friends (a couple), we just recently found out that, she got pregnant on purpose to keep him around. To make things worse she may not be having his baby. My boyfriend wants to tell him because he doesn't think she will. He soley supports her and her other daughter (from another 3 possible fathers). I think we should let her tell him.
2006-06-27 05:21:00 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
He needs to know one way or another. Sounds like this girl is a hoe...lotta fun. If she won't tell then you will need to. Good luck. She doesn't deserve such a good guy like him.
2006-06-27 05:24:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
If he loves her there isn't any point telling him although being a good friend you can inform him but not for the sole purpose of exposing her but instead keeping him on his toes. There is a unborn child involved in this situation who didn't ask to be here and the last thing you want to do is to cause problems making him not love the child because of the reason she wanted to conceive. Plus are you sure that the baby is his? Granted she has 3 other children by 3 other possible fathers?
2006-06-27 12:27:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is best to let others work out there own relationships themselves. I have seen it many times where good friends stepped in and made known information to friends only to loose the friendship of the person they were trying to protect.
2006-06-27 12:26:24 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i definetly think that you should push the girl to tell the man. i dont' think that you guys should interfere with it cause then that turns you into the bad guys it also makes you guys have to pick a side. that's messed up what the girl is doing though. i mean doesn't she know that babies dont make guys stick around anymore, hell i dont' know where my father is. its' only gonna be hard for her and the baby if the guy finds out later that it isn't his kid and leaves. she's getting herself into a big ole pile of s.h.i.t.
2006-06-27 12:28:20 · answer #4 · answered by oaklandolee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, if you care about him, sit down and tell him what you know. It will be difficult, but he will be more hurt if you tell him nothing and he finds out that he has been used and you knew it all along - a 2x betrayal is much worse than finding out his girl is not all that.
2006-06-27 12:28:47 · answer #5 · answered by auntb629 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i agree that it should come from her but you and your boyfriend might want to put a little pressure on her to let him know soon before the baby gets here. tell her that he needs to know and if it comes from her it will go over a lot better that his boy telling him.sometimes people can forgive the unforgivable if the love is there, but betrayal and lies always come back to haunt you.
2006-06-27 12:29:32 · answer #6 · answered by frsttmshy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him the truth. That way your girlfriend could see that she is on the wrong path and she needs to get back on the right one fast. She doesn't know it now but she is hurting herself and her children for her silly actions.
2006-06-27 12:28:03 · answer #7 · answered by chocolateheaven84 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have a talk with her. If she still refuses to tell him, then you should. He may not care, since he's already helping her with one that isn't his. But he should know the truth.
2006-06-27 12:26:08 · answer #8 · answered by goddess17 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to tell or this could be the last time u see your friend agin i had a friend like that and now she dosn't go to my school any more this is her second one her uncle is keeping them in a safe home
2006-06-27 12:27:31 · answer #9 · answered by lovergirl 101 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't get into their business, I knew a girl who did that. She might just be telling you that. Just let her do it and he will find out or not on his own. stay out of peoples business.
2006-06-27 12:25:54 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋