My man has a female friend and they call and text each other all the time. He gets mad when I check his phone and he erases the texts he sends. I don't mind that they are friends but I feel they should cut down on the texting and calling a little bit. Am I being insecure?
2006-06-27 05:16:18 · 8 answers · asked by Pink Princess 6 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
If he has a relationship with a woman, and they are just friends, then I don't see a problem. However, if he is making a point of hiding their communications, there *could* be something he is trying to hide. It might be something really stupid (like they gossip and he doesn't want you to know what he's saying about a friend of yours), it could be that he's planning a surprise party for you (or something similar), or there could be more to their relationship than just friendship.
If you are sure that they really are just friends, then think about whether you would consider the time they spend communicating "too much" if it were a male friend. If you would, then talk to him. Otherwise, it's probably you being insecure. If you *aren't* sure there isn't something more than friendship, talk to him...
2006-06-27 06:04:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
sort of id be upset though girl my man would never have a "friend" if they were friends then y he want let u see the text messages huh huh dont that seem kind of
odd and i bet he spend mo time on that phone then wit u u need to get him sta8 about that sl** yeah he can talk sometimes but all the time u no sumthing wrong wit that picture
2006-06-27 13:39:42 · answer #2 · answered by $$Mrs.Harvey$$ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you have a reason to be mad, I can't believe your man is so insensitive to your feelings let him go... He obviously can't live with out his friend....
2006-06-27 12:38:21 · answer #3 · answered by MissSmartt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like he's cheating on you!!! You need to have a serious chat with him and let him know if this doesn't stop your gone!!! Good luck and be strong!!!
2006-06-27 12:30:04 · answer #4 · answered by skrelaford6 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no..he jus needs to chill with the texting and y dont u ahve a lil talk wit him/
2006-06-27 12:20:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may be cheating on you. It sounds like the same thing I did when I cheated.
2006-06-27 16:11:37 · answer #6 · answered by Coffee Lover 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no and tell him to reverse the rolls if he really loves you he will and he will drop her if he doesnt care then you need a reality check take care
2006-06-27 12:26:53 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no it is normal for you to be upset.
2006-06-27 13:28:21 · answer #8 · answered by Luna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋