he is an asshole, i know that. he had the nerve to ask me to marry him "to prove to me how much he loves me" even though he behaves poorly when we are out. he is the one who gawks and gropes other women when we are out...still when i tell him how he makes me feel...he professes his love for me...with that special phrase "there is no woman out there that could measure up to you...". Yet he continues to behave in the manner i find degrading to me...i get tired of the whispers...form other women..they judge our relationship because of his actions and still he claims it is innocent and wants to marry me to prove his love for me....DOES HE THINK I AM REALLY STUPID OR SHOULD I GIVE HIM A DOSE OF HIS OWN MEDICINE?
2006-06-27 05:05:09 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You need to dump his sorry butt and move on to a guy that really appreciate you - at least enough to look at only you when you are out. Sounds like a jerk
2006-06-27 05:22:33 · answer #1 · answered by jessica 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So do you want us to believe that you would marry him to give him a dose of his own medicine ? Your gonna call him on it and see if he really meant it ? What a complete waste of your time. This man gawks and gropes women while out with you. He isn't worth a dime. When you let guys treat you like this and you stay they cant possibly have any respect for you.
2006-06-27 05:13:10 · answer #2 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's an a$$, he gropes other women, behaves poorly, has manners you find degrading................and yet, you are still with him. Does he think you're stupid? You bet he does, and he's not the only one either! You put up with all this crap and you're still there. Where is your self-worth? Don't you know that you deserve better? Get out of this relationship and go find your self-esteem again.
2006-06-27 05:30:43 · answer #3 · answered by thersa33 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It may be better for you to just eliminate the negative energy from your life --- i.e. end the relationship with him. Prolonging it in order "to give him a taste of his own medicine" is not going to move you forward. And, the fact that you'd even consider retaliating (along with "he is an asshole") indicates that this is not the kind of relationship where you're going to be edifying each other. I suggest evaluating what got you into the relationship, what has kept you in it, and what you will do to avoid this predicament in the future.
2006-06-27 05:12:31 · answer #4 · answered by mcskwayrd 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave this sorry *** loser for someone who respects you. If he loves you so much - he would not be gawking at other women in front of you. His behavior is selfish and disrespectful. Stand up for yourself and find a real man who will treat you like you deserve to be treated. This guy sounds like his is digging on himself a little too much.
2006-06-27 05:52:12 · answer #5 · answered by New York Mama 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there must be a bunch of single girls in here. Whats wrong with your fiance looking or even inocent flirting with other girls My opinion hes just a guy not a robot. If you leave him your gonna regret it!!! He loves you doesnt he come home to you? 2. if hes a dog if you know what i mean then he will always be waggin his tell so keep a short leash on him. I wish you two good luck and happiness!!!!
2006-06-27 05:30:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is really up to her what she wants to do. She has decide between being happy and being loyal to her family. You have no say so really. That is an adult decision that she has to make either way you will have to deal with the out come of the situation. But she has to have a back bone in order to leave.
2016-03-27 05:53:33 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes he thinks you are stupid...and you are for going out with him this long!!! What the hell are you doing??? He treats me badly...but, I'll still go out with him and bang him even though he keeps treating my like dirt!??
Slap yourself in the face...REAL HARD and wake up and leave this guy...and stop asking questions you know the answer to!
Sorry but yes he thinks you are stupid and he is the best think in your life...you must too...because you can't even come up with a screen name without having him in it. Oh Bruce...
2006-06-27 05:09:37 · answer #8 · answered by some1_on_the_side 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get out and walk away and do not stay with him and whatever you do do NOT marry him. Marrying you will not change him or how he treats you if anything it would only get worse. Get out now and move on with your life.
2006-06-27 06:04:54 · answer #9 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him. Anyone who treats you that way isn't worth the effort and time. Any minute you stay in this relationship is one more minute you've wasted on this loser.
2006-06-27 05:52:45 · answer #10 · answered by Kaia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋