they have a toddler.
2006-06-27 04:33:08 · 12 answers · asked by gang green 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Ask her why she does it. Granted, there is no true excuse for cheating on someone, but if she finds her ways to justify it, you can show her the error of those ways. Also ask her how she thinks her child is being affected by not having mom around as much, no matter how much the husband might look after the toddler.
As I went over a couple of the other answers, I would say it would be a good idea to either tell her to tell her husband or to tell the husband yourself if she refuses to. If she loves her husband any at all, she will quit cheating when he files for divorce and for full custody of the child.
2006-06-27 04:38:35 · answer #1 · answered by ? 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Try being honest with her. Let her know that you're not comfortable knowing she is doing this and that you think she needs to stop. If for no other reason than her kid. If she doesn't take your advice, there's nothing else you can do. It's not your place to tell her husband (unless he straight up asks you). She's a grown woman, she can make her own decisions and mistakes.
2006-06-27 11:38:42 · answer #2 · answered by rocknrobin21 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her that either she tell him and they start going to marriage counseling together, or you will tell him.
someone has to stop that. imagine what that little child will grow up thinking if his mom keeps having affairs all through his/her life! they will grow up with a distorted view of marriage, and ultimately have a marriage just like his/her parents.
2006-06-27 11:36:59 · answer #3 · answered by lledge 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can't convince someone who doesn't want to be convinced. does she want you to talk her into being faithful to her husband? she is probably enjoying the extra attention and doesn't want to hear you. she will hear you in time.
2006-06-27 11:36:15 · answer #4 · answered by thom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her, that you are going to tell him, if she doesn't stop. If that doesn't work, tell him anyway. He deserves to know what kind of woman he's living with. Then it's up to him, what to do about it, and it's out of your hands.
2006-06-27 11:37:27 · answer #5 · answered by wild1handy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cant convince her -- she has to decide when and IF she wants to stop.
2006-06-27 11:51:58 · answer #6 · answered by juicy_georgia_peach77 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell the hushand and she'll straighten up when he ask for a dna test on that kid
2006-06-27 11:35:21 · answer #7 · answered by buzy_bee_21 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that he will find out sooner or later and if he doesn't, you'll tell him. She should stop and if she doesn't, (you shouldn't be bluffing!!!!) tell her husband!!!!
2006-06-27 11:41:03 · answer #8 · answered by G.S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her to put herself in her husbands shoes and it is morally wrong.
2006-06-27 11:36:07 · answer #9 · answered by curious 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell her then mind your own business.
2006-06-27 11:36:52 · answer #10 · answered by island3girl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋