my husband dosent tell me he loves me and never remember s my birthday,nor buy me gift or take me out on valentines day,in short he never takes me out .he never lets me have friend,but he gat friends.and goes to the night club alone saying there will be noone to mind the kids if we go together
2006-06-27 04:21:19 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
He sounds like such a catch! It doesn't sound like he's interested in being with you. Move on, you'd be better off on your own.
2006-06-27 04:25:15 · answer #1 · answered by Violent and bored 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats friggen terrible and just plain wrong. How long have you been married to this jerk? I think its time you had a serious talk with this A$$HOLE. I have never done this to my girlfriends or my wife of many years. Some guys are very mean.( some girls are mean too) I don't understand that. I married my wife because I love her and I enjoy seeing her smile when I do special things for her. That brings me such joy. This husband of yours is a boy, not a man. I think you should give him a chance and explain your feelings. See if it changes things. If not, I would consider getting apart. I do not normally interfere when it comes to relationships, but I find this unacceptable.
2006-06-27 04:30:50 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think u need to get some advice on how to split with him b4 u get rid of him. Sounds like he's a control freak! Organise urself a new life at his expense - Get a good Solicitor & Get gone. But don't make excuses y not to do things, its ur life! I got a friend who's just doing the same thing, most of all b positive & don't let him bully u, there's lots of advice out there u just have to find it. in the UK speak to Woman's Aid. Good luck
2006-06-27 05:27:41 · answer #3 · answered by Phylofic Nod 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is being a little insensitive. Hasnt he ever heard of a babysitter? Can you get a relative to look after the children when you go out? Try and suggest it to him, and remind him about your birthday. You could take the initiative and organise something yourself as a surprise for him. It does take two to make a relationship work.
2006-06-27 05:49:15 · answer #4 · answered by fifi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In marriage vows, I don't believe the words "I promise to be your slave" exist, but obviously your husband thinks they do! The best thing you can do is take the kids and leave him. This man clearly doesn't love you and from what I can gather would rather go out to a club than be with his kids. You deserve someone who actually gives a damn about you - all the best.
2006-06-27 04:49:44 · answer #5 · answered by Emma H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds like a real jerk
I think its time for you to move on cause to me it sounds like he doesn't love you. He sounds lvery dominating like its his way or the high way. You deserve so much better than this. Your husband of all people should remember your birthday and bring you out sometimes.
Get out of there before it get worse, I know its hard when children are involved but they will get over it and it will be worse for them if you stay together and there is no love everything will turn sour and they will understand one day but for now you have to think about yourself, what is he going to be like with your children when they get older if this is the way he treats you.
2006-06-27 04:30:42 · answer #6 · answered by red lyn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him how you feel. If his response is cold, tell him how it hurts you that he never takes you out or lets you have friends. Suggest a date to him and have a babysitter already set up. That way he has no excuse. If he doesn't want to go then I think you and your husband should go to counseling. I think he loves you but he has a hard time showing it, and you two need to rekindle your romance.
2006-06-27 04:28:10 · answer #7 · answered by itiswell4me8 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like your husband is kind of a jerk, sorry to say. If you can't go to the nightclub with him, then he should respect you enough not to go out himself! Marriage is built on compromise and love and it sounds like he's lacking both. I would say follow your heart...what does it say about him? Hope my answer helped a little and good luck in the future....
2006-06-27 04:29:20 · answer #8 · answered by ♫Joshua's~♥~Girl♫ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he does love you but you need to get out more an not let him control you. at the minute he probly thinks ur his property and he doesnt need to try an impress you anymore so start going out and doing things buy your self treat him the way he treats you an it will soon change
2006-06-27 04:52:45 · answer #9 · answered by wetnslippy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I Would not stand it talk to him about it and try to get a ture anwser about it, and if you know he is lieing after that trie talking to the familey about it and they might have a better answer so if they dont like him about that to...
kick him to the curb
2006-06-27 04:30:08 · answer #10 · answered by little_mama_on_the_block 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋