Hello!
A few days ago, a friend of mine shared a secret with me and told me this boy she liked. Well, I happen to like him too, so I told her that I liked him as well. She then wrote back and told me I misunderstood her and that she only likes him as a friend. Then she told me that her mother reads all her emails (which she didn't happen to mention before) and that her mother was "concerned" about what I had said! I only said I liked him and that I wished I was his gf, is that so out-of-the-ordinary for a 15 year old girl?!?
I feel betrayed that I trusted my friend with a secret, one that I had told NO one else, and her mother got involved. Furthermore, I feel shes lieing to me about only liking him as a friend, because she couldnt have told me any plainer that she liked him!
I dont want to lose her as a friend or be mean to her, what should I do?!?
2006-06-27 04:20:30 · 7 answers · asked by Aimee 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Your friend left out some small details, that doesn't make her a bad friend. Tell her how you feel, Number one your 15! your parents are the only people who should care about the boys you like, your friends mom I'm sure understands that and just doesn't want you to "influence" her daughter in some way. Your friend obviously likes this guy and maybe she was trying to cover that so that her mom wouldn't know. Her mom reads her mail so maybe she didn't want her mom reading e-mails with you saying stuff like- I like him too and he's so hott, or I want to be his girlfriend. That might make her mom think she likes him, even if she does she might not want her mom to think that, hope this helps
2006-06-27 04:27:10 · answer #1 · answered by Me 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Do a trust test, make up a juicy secret that's not true, and let it slip to your friend if the secret gets out, then you know you really can't trust her, and if that's the case watch her, keep your enemies close and your friends even closer, make like your fine with everything and act normal but always keep an eye on her, and if she ever confides a secret to you, no matter how tempted you are to spilling it, don't because you would bringing yourself to her level.but hey that just my opinion.
2006-06-28 08:02:29 · answer #2 · answered by Funny Shy Guy :) 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i feel 4 u. I've had a shared crush before. what i did was chose another dude and let her go out w/ him. when they broke up i went out w/ him. 4 lieing 2 u, u can get 2 boys. i also kept my friend. just tell her mom your over boys and into something else. it worked 4 me but something could go wrong w/ u so I'd get all facts strait and really think it through first.
2006-06-27 11:33:30 · answer #3 · answered by hottie4eva153 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you like this boy and your best friend mother is concerned about it? Why the drama so you like this boy and? If you don't want your friend no more just tell her. Who cares about what her moms thinks. She is not your mother right. Just have fun.
2006-06-27 11:26:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think you should be mean with her but just talk to her. also, stop emailing her about stuff like that. you might want to yall at her mom just alittle though. it will make yoiu feel better and you wont loose a friend...plus, i think she may deserve it.
2006-06-27 11:26:59 · answer #5 · answered by cherry♥blossoms 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Buck up sweetie, your friend does like that boy as much as you do. If you value your friendship. Let her have him. You can probably get any other guy you want.
2006-06-27 11:23:49 · answer #6 · answered by laa_dee_fukin_daa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never mention it again, and pretend it did not happen.
Plausable deniability
2006-06-27 11:23:47 · answer #7 · answered by ogenglishman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋