My ex is staying overnight to help out with our sons birthday party we have been seperated for 5 years and we are now both single and enjoy each others company? Should I make a move on him?
2006-06-27 04:12:39 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
No - You separated for a reason - you owe it to your son not to screw things up again.. (Depends upon the reason though)
Be content with being friends - it'll be alot harder if it fails this time - both for you & your son...
2006-06-27 05:41:28 · answer #1 · answered by want_to_explore_life 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
No. Lets look at this like the Stephen King movie Pet Cometary, weird analogy I know but work with me. When something dies it dies for a reason. If we bring something back, we bring back the problems that were there before it died. Essentially what I am saying is that your relationship ended or died for a reason. You may be feeling warm and fuzzy now as his presence is bringing back feelings. You need to look back on why your relationship ended and really be conscious of the fact that whatever it was will be there should you try and re-kindle things. I say, don't make a move find a new healthy relationship and help your self grow.
DO NOT SETTLE ON THE OLD LOOK FOR THE NEW!
2006-06-27 04:20:20 · answer #2 · answered by aquavita@sbcglobal.net 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You really have to be careful with this one. Do you still love him or do you not like the fact that you're single? It's great that you now get on, but that doesn't mean anything could start again. The worst thing for your son would be to see mum and dad getting back together then breaking up again. If he's also interested and willing to make things work, you could try. Instead of making a pass, tell him how you feel and see what he says.
2006-06-27 04:20:13 · answer #3 · answered by Emma H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You said it...EX...EX...EX!!!
NO...NO...NO!!!
Why is it that people that have made a chioce to get a divorce always refuse to completely let go??? Let it go...move on...find some other guy and hump his brains out!!! Find two guys...three guys...whatever! Just don't get involved with the ex. This isn't Hollywood and it won't end like in the movies with you two getting back together...so just move on already.
2006-06-27 04:25:04 · answer #4 · answered by some1_on_the_side 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really enjoy each others company, they why late? Just make a move....
2006-06-27 04:17:02 · answer #5 · answered by nimmi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Test the ice first, being an ex it's sketchy ground. Drop a hint, see how he reacts, work it out from there.
2006-06-27 04:48:13 · answer #6 · answered by ralphseviltwin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
an EX is and EX for a REASON ! Only you know if it is right to make a move
2006-06-27 04:18:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are thinking about getting back together with him then do it... if its just sex it will make things complicated and your son will be in the middle...
2006-06-27 04:18:14 · answer #8 · answered by brenda4ever 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there's nothing wrong if you will make a move on him...who know's one day he want's to be with you again and be with you for the rest of your live's...remember,love move's in mysterious ways!!!
2006-06-27 04:18:36 · answer #9 · answered by mrs_budd05 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take it slow and easy...but yes go for it. just don't go to fast. take a few steps and then give you both time to get comfortable before going further.
2006-06-27 04:16:48 · answer #10 · answered by captures_sunsets 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋