my mother always seems to be annoyed with me but when i ask her what ive done wrong but she says i have done nothing wrong is this paranoia.
2006-06-27 04:08:24 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
well it sounds like a mild case of it if there nothing wrong with your mum.I mean if you think your mum is annoyed with u but she not why do u think she is?
Mum is probably tired and fed up and just seems miserable and that is maybe showing .
I know i have days i'm tired and just seem distant and in a world of my own .
Keep an eye on your mum and maybe help abit to keep her less stressed.
2006-06-27 04:16:26 · answer #1 · answered by Nutty Girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not paranoia, she's probably just frustrated about something. Maybe she's just having an off day or something is bothering HER and no one asks her what is wrong. Try asking her if something is bothering her or if she's okay instead of asking what you've done wrong. Maybe your mom is just feeling down about something and needs someone to ask her how she is.
2006-06-27 11:15:02 · answer #2 · answered by Shadow419 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Paranoia is stronger, more general, and more destructive, in a way.
I am not a parent, but I feel that all parents get annoyed with their children often.
Just like everybody else, it can be difficult to come up with a loving answer, without loading adult problems or concerns onto a child's (!?) shoulders.
Of course, we seem to always be children - sometimes - to our parents. That's my opinion anyway.
2006-06-27 11:17:26 · answer #3 · answered by Sciman 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust your instincts. It's probably true that she's annoyed about something and is taking it out on you, though you may not be the real cause of her anger. DON"T blame yourself for other people's bad feelings or you'll have a miserable life. There are so many ratty people out there. Just breeze along and take no notice. (sometimes this will make them even rattier, that's their problem! but often they will leave you alone if they see you're not bothered.) You're not paranoid!
2006-06-27 11:22:56 · answer #4 · answered by survivor 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A little bit, maybe.
She might be upset about something else that has nothing to do with you, or she just might be one of those people that just always seem like they're upset, even when they're not.
Why don't you try doing something nice for her, getting her a gift, making her some tea, or maybe just sitting down next time and saying... "If you want to talk about it, I'm here, and I love you."? (yes I know it sounds ghey, but even if she doesn't take you up on the offer, sometimes it's just nice to know that you are loved.).
2006-06-27 11:13:18 · answer #5 · answered by Spooky - Gender Anarchist 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust your intuition, if you think something's up it probably is. Try asking a more open question, like "Are you OK mum?" or "how's your day been". Give her the opportunity to say anything that's on her mind without being so direct, as in a you-her situation.
2006-06-27 11:59:31 · answer #6 · answered by ralphseviltwin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it is paranoia, but something is not right there. Maybe she is going through a rough time (whether you know it or not) and is just acting differently??
2006-06-27 11:12:26 · answer #7 · answered by blink182fan117 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you think that your mother is annoyed? Ask her a specific question about that ie Why do you look so angry when I .... She may be angry or upset at someone else and doesn't feel she can tell them
2006-06-27 11:15:32 · answer #8 · answered by Debbie C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mothers are often annoyed. It is not necessarily at the child. Don't worry about it. I am a mother, so I know.
2006-06-27 11:13:05 · answer #9 · answered by proudmatriarch 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she is unhappy or depressed. On the other hand, you may be looking for reactions as you know she SHOULD be angry with you. Give her some hugs, Mum's love that, and keep your eye on her in case she is just unhappy with life. X
2006-06-27 11:13:09 · answer #10 · answered by Amanda C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋