I've posted the entire story in a new myspace blog I created just for this. It's detailed so that everyone has a good idea of where I'm at and where she's at. I've done my best to remain unbiased
It's at:
http://blog.myspace.com/86857506
Please read the whole thing before replying and feel free to contact me for more details by sending me a message on the blog or sending me an email through yahoo.
2006-06-27 04:04:00 · 10 answers · asked by Darkwater 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
My advice to you: Let her go. From reading your story, I truly believe that you both need to be apart...and have a chance to grow up. Experiencing that first love was a way to help you grow and experience real things...emotions, pain, conflict. She sounds far too confused about everything to make a decision any time soon. She also sounds like someone who is trying to keep you as a "back-up." Let her go and look for someone to have an adult relationship with.
2006-06-27 04:27:08 · answer #1 · answered by beans123 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i truely understand....what u feel.....
i know she loves u....u too love her a lot......
for a girl a family and frineds is important.......its natural that she is getting brainwashed....and she is deeply stressed.....she is fighting between her brain and heart.....her heart is for u while her brain is towards what her famly n friends say......
1. at this point of time.....u should show more and more and more love towards her...try meeting her...and talkign to her...going out..calling her ...texting her..sweet love quotes...try spendin the maximum time with her....if she doesn't allow u to do this....
2.the next thing u can do is.......just go to her work place...or her home.......just stay away from her...and wander near the places she stays.........like....being near her work place when she is getting in for work and getting out for work.......being near her home when she is enterin her home....don't go and talk to her.......it should not be lik u r spying her...........it is just that u wanna see her face.......
she might call u and scream at u....sayin why r u spying me.....just say u dreamt abt her....and wanted to see her badly.......
.the basic thing iam asking u to do this is that she shouldn't forget u...every moment in her brain she has to have ur picture....it should become very difficult for her to forget u and ur face......so this will make her think abt u more and more....abt ur love towards her......
3. ( don't discard the old number she might call u on it) u can buy a new number......text her sweet love poems love qoutes......and text her the way u text her.......make it obvious to her that it is you who is trying to reach her.........try to show all ur love like this........
don't miss ur chance to say that u love her.....every moment every second show ur love to her......she might call u and yell...be very very patient......don't loose ur calm....even if she yells keep saying softly i love u i love u i love u................
if she doesn't allow u to call her.....u can try the 2 and 3 option simultaneously......... or u can try the 1 and 2 option simultaneously........
remember one thing......in case by gods grace she agrees to marry u.....u have to behave the same way even after marriage incase she looses her temper.......don't take her for granted just because u r married to her........thats how marriages last long....
even after u r married to her......each day love her as if u r loving her for the first time
all the best friend...........dont forget to do a little prayer before u do anything...it helps a lot...
hope this helps u
2006-06-27 11:51:25 · answer #2 · answered by angel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't read through all of that, there's just way too much. My advice is to forget about this woman, if she wants you back, she'll come back, until then stop calling her.
2006-06-27 12:59:52 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should shorten this a little bit its like a freakin book. I'll check Later.
2006-06-27 11:19:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on and shorten up the blog not many people have the time i had to scan
2006-06-27 11:33:40 · answer #5 · answered by buzy_bee_21 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
man that's such a long story I can't read it all, post a condensed version of it
2006-06-27 11:38:06 · answer #6 · answered by sparkleythings_4you 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, but I don't have time to read people's life stories.........good luck though....
2006-06-27 12:31:47 · answer #7 · answered by bluez 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you wrote a book damn just give us some minor things to go on!
2006-06-27 11:33:24 · answer #8 · answered by Danette 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow; that is the story of your life!
..i'll check back later aswell.
2006-06-27 11:21:25 · answer #9 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
whoa......WAY TOO MUCH.
2006-06-27 11:12:54 · answer #10 · answered by kiss me 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋