am i wrong for not trusting my boyfriend around my best friend?

Question

1) he allways stares at her (she is highly attractive 1/2 back-italian)

2) when they conversate I sometimes feel if I include myself Im interrupting them

3) she is my friend. NOT HIS

4) he always asks me questions about her like:
*how many boys is she messing with
*why doesnt she have a boyfriend

5) he sometimes compares me to her. and talks about her all the time.

6) when I ask him why he allways talks about her he says things like "I like her....but I would never try to come on to her or nothing".

maybe he just has a lil crush on her and doesnt realize it. Maybe im jealous. maybe im crazy.

Answer 1

I dont think they should get to know each other too well.. becuase if an argument or fight happens.. your friend (if she is single) might take advantage of the situation. I think you should keep that on a hi and bye basis

Answer 2

no, if you are telling the complete truth about whats going on here, then you are correct, he's got a thing for her.

you will not be doing yourself any favors by staying.

a guy who would do this around you is very likely to cheat.

and the truth is you deserve a man who wants you and not your friend.

what you didnt mention is whether of not your friend is responding to you boyfriend's flirtations,

if she is then you need to get a new friend too, a true friend would never do that..
you might just want to step out of the way and let them be together, a boyfriend like him isnt worth fighting for.

Answer 3

Just give your boyfriend the cold shoulder treatment as a test. Or question him and his motives. Does he or doesn't he that is the question. Inform your friend hands off. He sounds like he's definitely interested in her. I'd set him straight or something is going to come about. Just ask him if he's losing interest in you. If so let you know now so you won't get hurt.

Answer 4

It is normal for a woman to feel a little insecure, it happens to the best of us. Just ask yourself this, has your boyfriend or your best friend every been untrustworthy to you? Has your best friend or your boyfriend cheated before? If so then I'd start looking over your relationships, these may be people you don't want to have in your life.

Answer 5

Anytime, your significant other compares you to someone else, you should start to question her/his motives. You shouldn't be with someone who's blatantly giving you signs that he's interested in someone else, especially being that it's your best friend!!!! I think you should, take a break with him. By him giving you all those signs you just mentioned, it's very possible that he's already cheated on you, or that he will.

Answer 6

Maybe he does have a little crush. It happens sometimes, dont be to worried. My best advice, just keep a watch on them just in case.

Answer 7

I'd mention it to him directly and tell him what you expect. Tell him if he's interested in her to tell you right now so you can move on with your life.

My boyfriend of two years who i planned to marry left me for my best friend. I was devistated. Don't think that you can trust them if you feel you can't. I had no idea what was going on because I trusted them.

Answer 8

Don't ask us...ask him! the problem with most relationships is that people don't say what is on their minds....speak openly about it and find out...maybe he is just being friendly bc she is your friend.....though maybe he wants to do her!

Answer 9

You should confront him, the relationship is between you and him. Tell him you feel uncomfortable with the way he always refers to her and how would he like it if you were like that with his best friend. I bet you he wouldn't.

Answer 10

honey, let me tell u something. there must be a reason why your feeling this way. think about it k! you need to rethink this relationship. sorry hon. but i think its 4 the best.