By marrying the biggest piece of crap Loser to ever be born into our world, would you tell her knowing she wouldnt listen and it would piss her off and cause problems between you and her, or would you not say anything at all because shes happier then she has been for a long time?
2006-06-27 04:00:37 · 14 answers · asked by LurkinwhileWorkin 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
This is my best friend for almost 10 years, she also happens to be my cousin..so shes family.
2006-06-27 04:07:25 · update #1
If you really feel that he is not right for her as a friend I would tell her. I would word it something like, you are my friend and I plan to always be here for you. I know you might get mad, but I do not think he is right for you, explain to her why and end it by saying that you had to tell her how you truly felt and hope she would do the same for you. Let her know that you are still there for her.
She might be upset, but it is something to think about. Maybe she will open her eyes a little more and maybe she won't but the most important thing is that you honestly let her know how you felt. A true friend would not let this damage a friendship she may be mad, but she will get over it. Once you tell her leave it alone and don't keep bringing it up. If the situation blows up in her face don't say any "I told you so" just be there for her.
This is my opinion, I hope that it helps God Bless
2006-06-27 04:10:47 · answer #1 · answered by MRS N 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would start off by saying this might hurt you or might make you mad or whatever and I know you're really happy, but I would regret it if I didn't get it out in the open how I feel. Tell her that whatever way she goes, you'll be behind her every step of the way and then tell her how you feel.
2006-06-27 11:04:54 · answer #2 · answered by Wanna get down not the 1st night 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've dealt with this kind of situation with a friend. She knew my feelings (i didn't come out and say what a loser he was and all but she knew that we didn't get along) Instead I was just there for her to talk to, a shoulder to cry on, etc. Just be there for her and she will really appreciate it.
2006-06-27 11:03:29 · answer #3 · answered by lulucakes32 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you already talk to her about your concern and if still she didnt listen to you just accept her decision...that's her life...as long as you already did your part as a friend like giving all the advises which you think will be best for her and still she didnt mind it...just respect her decision...you are not the one who will be with that guy...it is your friend...she will be the one who will going to suffer the consequences .....if she is happy now then just support her with her decisions and if just in case one day she will be able to realize that you are correct then dont leave her but instead comfort her and help her realize on her mistakes and hopefully next time she will going to listen to you
2006-06-27 11:42:20 · answer #4 · answered by trendycurly16 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a tough situation to be in. If anyone told me that I was marrying a loser i would tell them they don't have to come to the wedding. That might be her reaction. People unfortunetly want to learn from their own mistakes.
2006-06-27 11:04:01 · answer #5 · answered by jenniferscott1974 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be care full Do not say he is a dick, ask her if she is happy, if there is any doubt tell her its OK to wait. everybody well be OK with the decision if you want to wait or call it off.
Some women like to be with losers.
2006-06-27 11:07:20 · answer #6 · answered by mike67333 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Aske her if she is certain this is what she wants and GENTLY tell her why you think differently, after that you wish her luck and keep your mouth shut. Just be there for her when she needs to talk when things crash and burn and NEVER say "i told you so"
2006-06-27 11:04:20 · answer #7 · answered by island3girl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't say anything.
It is her marriage, and if she has a problem she will ask for your assistance. Other than that, stay out of it.
2006-06-27 11:04:19 · answer #8 · answered by Samster 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not say anything and let her find out on her own by dropping little hints here and there
2006-06-27 11:03:41 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would suffer frist than letting her suffer by her true love, because that problem might go away anyway.
2006-06-27 11:06:05 · answer #10 · answered by pa houa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋