how long would you go out with someone you were in love with for if they had no interest in sex?
2006-06-27 03:31:19 · 18 answers · asked by zara c 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I'm old!!
He's not gay.
Am with him 1 1/2 yrs
2006-06-27 03:42:12 · update #1
i think it depends on age and what you want from a relationship.has this person got no interest in sex or is that just sex with you.by you asking this question you have doubts about being with this person, if nothings going to change and you want it to, maybe you should think about splitting with this person and remaining good friends with them.
as for me, coz im not the norm and if i really loved them,i would stay with them.
2006-06-27 06:51:52 · answer #1 · answered by Paul S 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It is very unusual for a man not to be interested at all. You should try to openly talk about it to see if you can find out the real reason. It may be an issue of a physical problem or a psychological problem that he should see a doctor for. Even if he doesn't give you a specific reason, you could make a doctor's appointment for him and give the doc a head's up about the issue. The doc wouldn't be able to report back to you or anything but your man might open up a little easier with a professional and get the help he needs.
2006-06-27 10:53:19 · answer #2 · answered by Lynn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they have absolutely NO interest, then not very long I'm afraid. Sex is a natural human desire and for this to be unfulfilled would not be tolerated. Sex isn't love, and never should be confused with it- however the physical bonding of two people is a big part of a relationship, and, as far as I'm concerned, essential for maintaining love.
2006-06-27 10:35:43 · answer #3 · answered by Sitting Still 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you genuinely love that person for who they are sex would not be an issue. sex just comes with the territory its an added bonus to a good relationship. once a relationship ins based on sex thats all it will be just about sex. talk with your partner find out why they are not interested and see how best you can work arround it. if sex is a big deal to then quit while you are ahead
2006-06-27 10:43:05 · answer #4 · answered by tia 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless the person is not in love with you and yours would only be a one-sided love. The best is action speak louder that words, make your first move and see what happen? If he is still not interested, he be be a gay.(sorry)
2006-06-27 10:38:04 · answer #5 · answered by simple 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it was really love - not having sex would not be a problem - sex and love ar two different things and you do not have to have one to have the other
2006-06-27 10:35:17 · answer #6 · answered by MS L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not too long. Why waste time with someone you want to be more than friends with when what they are doing is basically keeping it on the friendship level.
2006-06-27 10:35:15 · answer #7 · answered by Tunasandwich 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sex is not everything in a relationship, but for me if there is no sex thats like a best mate!!I would think he had gone off me I would have to ask him!
2006-06-27 10:36:40 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think a year. I would try to tempt them in every way possible during that time, but would eventually have to give up.
2006-06-27 10:36:00 · answer #9 · answered by AsianPersuasion :) 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If i really loved them then i could not leave them for that reason. I know that if my man could no longer perform then i love him enough to stay with him.
2006-06-27 10:35:44 · answer #10 · answered by happyflamepepper 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋