My friend and I have know each other for the past 4 months when his 2 baby mamas started fighting about amongst themselves. I felt sorry for him because he was breaking down and we were friend but now things are starting to heat up between us and we have moved from being friends to being lovers. I'm scared that he might resolved things with either one of them and I will be left alone. I told him about my fears & told me that he will never go get back with any of them but I'm not sure.
My friends keep telling me that the other mama was pregnant... in fact, she just gave birth and when she was in labour, guess who drove her to the clinic?
I need to tell him that our friendship will turn into a battle because of his stories, lies and stupid mistakes (that's what he keeps saying everytime). I think he's just a pig!
Please advice!
2006-06-27 03:12:39 · 4 answers · asked by october_babe 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
if you think that about him well you just anwered your own question. follow your instincts and dont get caught up in the drama...
2006-06-27 03:20:17 · answer #1 · answered by luv41anatha 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honey, get out now, while the getting is good. You do not have too much invested in this relationship and you can leave now without too much pain and healing. This will only lead to a whole lot of discontent. Look at the others he has left behind. Do you want to involve yourself in all the trifling arguments? Men will lie and play on your sympathy. Look at how he made you "feel sorry for him", ya know? If you want to remain friends, then that is fine, but anything else will be rough. A relationship with this man will mean a relationship with all of his kids and their mothers. Respect yourself more than to put yourself through this. You deserve more than a story telling liar who admits to making alot of stupid mistakes. He will be forever connected to his past and so will you if you get in any deeper relationship wise with this guy. He doesn't sound worth all the hassle in my opinion. Good luck.
2006-06-27 13:05:01 · answer #2 · answered by whatshername 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you been paying any attention to the other mothers? First of all, he has children with TWO other women. These women don't seem very civil. Your man will have to pay child support to both of these women. Money is ALWAYS an issue when it comes to child support. Your MAN will be in and out court, BOTH women will probably get fed up with him and tag team against him and go after you emotionally. Is this what you want? Do you really want to be involved in custody & vistation battles? He seems like he already has his hands full with these two women, find somebody who can give YOU all the attention you deserve. Find someone who can make the relationship YOURS & HIS. Don't be with somebody who makes the relationship, HIS, THE EX'S, HIS CHILDREN..... then YOU.
2006-06-27 10:44:15 · answer #3 · answered by LO 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WELL IF THIS IS MAKING U FEEL BAD GET RID OF HIM NOW THAT U CAN B/C LATER ONCE U GET REALLY ATTACHED TO HIM OR U HAVE A KID WITH HIM UR SELF ITS GONNA GET BAD
GET RID OF HIM NOW !!!!!!!!11
2006-06-27 11:14:36 · answer #4 · answered by JAZY 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋