2006-06-27 03:02:08 · 14 answers · asked by ? 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I HAD A PITY LOVE THAT WAS WORKING QUITE WELL UNTIL I LEFT IT TO PURSUE WHAT I THOUGHT WAS THE ONE, ONLY TO BE LEFT LONGING FOR THE PITY LOVE I LEFT BEHIND BECAUSE THE ONE TURNED OUT TO BE
-ONE- FALSE PRETENSE. THE GRASS IS NOT ALWAYS GREENER ON THE OTHER SIDE. IF IT AIN'T BROKE WHY TRY AND FIX IT. IF THE PITY LOVE IS CONTENTING ENOUGH UNTIL SOMETHING REAL ARISES, WHAT DO YOU HAVE TO LOSE?
2006-06-27 06:02:23 · answer #1 · answered by mzsuzie93 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
That depends on what the situation is that you're talking about, D~. If you're talking about a hook-up between two people, then, no, pity love usually does not work forever. It may be a gift from one to another, but rarely is it a sharing of intimacy. Pity love has no foundation to build on except generosity. And without a foundation, it will not last.
Pity-love, as mentioned in religious texts, does work forever. It is a form of generosity that is helpful for the disadvantaged, and has lasting value for both the giver and the recipient of the gift.
2006-06-27 10:40:18 · answer #2 · answered by Flame 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing lasts forever, and feeling sorry for someone and loving them are two different things. In order to love someone truly, you have to respect them and not "pity" them. There's also the matter of whether a person in "pity" love for another, respects and loves themselves.
2006-06-27 20:01:41 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure about pity or forever. I have known couples who have gotten together out of convenience and circumstances and ended up in a strong, loving relationship and raised pretty decent families, but I suppose it depends on what context you put it in and how it's applied.
2006-06-27 10:41:34 · answer #4 · answered by Striker 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest with yourself and look for smething that is real. Toys have no feelings or meaning. Get a real guy or girl and live a real life worth loving for. No, a pity love is a leech , a user or fantasy. It will end when the feelings is numb
2006-06-27 12:28:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could be a little like the love of a parent towards a child, so it could be an enduring though not romantic relationship. But eventually the child grows up in some way or another, so the nature of the relationship would have to change.
2006-06-29 03:38:07 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, resentment will probably set in pretty fast. I don't know how someone could stand being the target of someones pity love myself
2006-06-28 14:16:36 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you talking to me ! !
if so YES it will
because you and I will end up loving each other with out even noticing it went from pity love to real love..
so I believe with us it could last forever
but if your talking about someone else..it will turn on you and the tow of you will end up hating each other..sorry..thats the way it is..
smile
good luck
2006-06-29 22:57:53 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
in my case, i would hope so. actually i dont have any kind of love right now but if it were pity love, i dont think it could last, unless its a florence nightingale thing.
2006-06-27 12:17:53 · answer #9 · answered by cornholio9631 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what the hell is "pity love"? is that anything like "mercy f*ck"?
only real love will last so probably not.
2006-06-27 10:06:40 · answer #10 · answered by Coz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋