i have aboyfriend whom i have a child with but i dont love the father want i want know is normal to still bein love with ur first love after 4yrs i have strong feelings about him and feel i still love him and want to e with him can some body plz help me.
2006-06-27 03:00:49 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Stay true to yourself what is best for you? Do the right thing if you do not love your baby's father do not be with him or you may never be happy or are you happy with the baby father does this other guy after 4 years want to be with you you need to look things over before you decide what to do because if you have not talked to the other guy that you are in love with you might lose the father of your baby that really loves you could you ever love your baby father's you need to look deep within and find out your true feeling before you act on them
2006-06-27 03:07:38 · answer #1 · answered by crystal_clear_0000 3 · 12⤊ 2⤋
It is normal to have feelings for someone after that long of a period. Especially if he broke up with you and you had never resolved your feelings.
You need to be honest with the father of your child. If you don't care for him anymore he should have the right to go find someone who does. Once you taken care of that than go to your ex and see if he has feelings for you.
2006-06-27 10:09:03 · answer #2 · answered by butterflykisses427 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe your love of four years ago was such a pleasent experience you remember the feeling and not the person. Find someone that you can share the present with and feel the same way.
2006-06-27 10:06:47 · answer #3 · answered by hope 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont stay with him just because u have a child but do really love ur 1st love or have u just got stuck in a rut?
2006-06-27 17:47:43 · answer #4 · answered by lil_miss_goody2shoes76 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes its normal. You can't stop loving someone on Q. So see if things can work out. If you don't love your boyfriend, it can't be healthy for either one of you or the child.
Best of luck!
2006-06-27 10:04:01 · answer #5 · answered by suziQ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you cant help who you are in love with, and if you are unhappy you should leave the guy you dont want to be with and try and find happiness elsewhere. good luck whatever you decide to do!
2006-06-27 10:03:44 · answer #6 · answered by leighdevaney 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call him and tell him how you feel, the worst thing that can happen is that he'll tell you no & if that's the case then your no worse off than you are right now...Good luck :-)
2006-06-27 10:03:27 · answer #7 · answered by Karen 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
pray so that God helps you, GOD is the only one who loves u pure love and cares for and always want the best for you
2006-06-27 10:04:46 · answer #8 · answered by raflawy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no matter what u will always love and remember ur 1st love :)
2006-06-27 10:02:56 · answer #9 · answered by diamondprincezz456 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you are beond help
2006-06-27 10:03:31 · answer #10 · answered by bildymooner 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋