I have only dated him for a month or so and he says he loves me and wants to marry me but then he tells me he could die anytime with this tumor.
2006-06-27 02:57:29 · 11 answers · asked by heartofgold272 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
ls a difficult situation. You love him?
Can you be so cruel to hurt him?
l know is difficult for you to do this, you have your life, why to marry a person with brain tumor...
ls sure he's gonna die?
My father's wife was with a brain tumor, she was operated and now she is OK.
At the and of all, do what you want to do, you have also your life.
The best for you
2006-06-27 03:06:11 · answer #1 · answered by ice cream with chocolate 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
that depends on whether you want to go through that pain or not. I would not get married legally because then all his medical bills will be your responsibility. My mother died from brain cancer and my father was put through the ringer. as his wife you may at one point have to decide whether he lives or dies. You may have to watch him suffer so much to the end and he might even be comatos at one point. it's a very hard thing to go through and in marriage you must love him all the way through his sickness. Only you can decide if you are strong enough to deal with that.
2006-06-27 03:05:08 · answer #2 · answered by Brandie C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can look at this from a lot of angles. is he serious or just pulling your leg to make you stay. if you marry him you are pledging to be with him through sickness and health are you ready for that? he could live a couple of days or maybe years. and if you are not serious about him then you need to let him know and leave. just maybe he will have enough time left to find someone who will truely love him no questions asked...
2006-06-27 03:06:05 · answer #3 · answered by luv41anatha 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well look at it this way would you want him to stay with you if it was you who had the tumor.
Any he could very well out live you.
If you are happy together as a couple then stay together because happiness doesnt come easy.
and true love is the greatest gift of all.
2006-06-27 03:06:25 · answer #4 · answered by jamnjims 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love him, marry him. Let him die happy. Don't ever give up on something like that.
2006-06-27 03:32:34 · answer #5 · answered by Michele 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're worthless to even ask such a stupid question. Leave the guy alone, you are insensitive and he deserves better than you.
2006-06-27 03:03:14 · answer #6 · answered by Tired Wife 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to ask your self if u really love this guy because he really loves u but thats alot on u the rest of your life so good luck
2006-06-27 03:03:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him to know that you must stay with or no
maybe he is going he feel beter with you
2006-06-27 03:06:57 · answer #8 · answered by zangolegold2005 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WHY WOULD YOU EVEN ASK THAT QUESTION!?
Why would you let him die alone?
You'll break his heart!
2006-06-27 03:01:29 · answer #9 · answered by dr_salvadore@verizon.net 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU PROBABLY WORSENED THE CONDITION. SO STAY!!!!!!!!!
2006-06-27 03:06:50 · answer #10 · answered by Jen2man 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋