i have this idea that i need a new look i want to get noticed by guys ive finished school now which was a disaster all the way through and now i have a new oppertunity to make a fresh start at college in september but through the summer i want to get a new look and look good but i dont have a clue i really want some help i need help .. some people would say ure only 15 but im mature for my age ive always been known for it and relationshpd keep praying on my mind. SOMEONE PLEASE HELP ME!!
2006-06-27 02:54:13 · 18 answers · asked by cookiegirl516 1 in Beauty & Style ➔ Other - Beauty & Style
You could get your hair styled different or change the colour. Wear a bit make-up if you dont already - but i would do it for yourself not just because you want a boyfriend, beauty comes from within!! xx
2006-06-27 03:03:28 · answer #1 · answered by CrayzeeKat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok... I guess I'll skip the whole "you're young and give it time" schpeel.... Here's my actual answer:
I went through exactly the same thing when I was 15/16. No one even looked at me until I was 16. For me, it was getting rid of glasses, learning a bit about fashion and what looked good on my body type (easy enough to do, just read some magazines and go shopping... be sure to ask the sales ladies for assistance, they usually know what they're talking about and most will be honest about what looks good and what doesn't), and finally just figuring out that "I'm ok". It sounds totally cliche, but confidence adds so much to a persons aura.
Whatever you do, don't "lose" yourself in an attempt to turn into what you think guys want. The best guys will want you, not just the shell of you. And trust me on this one, it is worth waiting for the best guys!!
2006-06-27 03:13:02 · answer #2 · answered by Goose&Tonic 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
When i was 15 i tried to be a goth so i died my hair black and wore black make up. Then i wanted to be a skater so i wore baggy clothes and had my hair cut short. All i really wanted was to fit in, so I know how you feel!!
I think changing to please a boy is a bad idea because it wont make you happy and the boy will tell its not really you so it wont last long anyway. But i think getting new clothes before you go to college is a great idea! It will make you feel more confident and that means guys are more likely to notice you anyway (confidence is the most important thing)
First get some good fitting jeans because you can wear them for college every day and dress them up for dates. Round toes pumps are the best shoes: cute and comfy! Now all you need is a nice big leather bag for carrying your school books in and some cute tops. Plain t shirts and sweaters in pastel colours work best if you wear it with some cute jewlrry (try newlook for cheap fashionable stuff) and get a blazer for when it gets a little cooler. i would recommend Primark for everything else because its really fashionable and super cheap!! your lucky because you have young skin so you dont need much make up but a nice pink lip gloss will give you a lovely kissable pout!!
Good luck- and try and make lots of girl friends at your new college as well as wowing the boys!
2006-06-27 03:49:32 · answer #3 · answered by bunnygirl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well start in the summer if u go to any party be firting with a few guys and c who that goes. but cause ur going to college u may find the right guy there but too not be too interested at first or you will scare them away so get to know i few and see how it goes u do not need to change ur image just be you and all the guys will be like butter on the fire if u know what i mean GOOD LUCK AND HAVE FUN! DO not take it too seroius ur only 15 after all go on a few dates. and enjoy it i did and me and my boo have been together 10 mths so enjoy urself i did
2006-06-27 03:04:50 · answer #4 · answered by deborahlouiseclarke20 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi i agree with stiff_greygo... i was like you to when i was 15 now im 22 and im very happy, i have gained in confidence a great deal and i have found that helps. most men like that but in small doses, being cute and girlie works too.
but i think the main thing that will help is for you to go out and make friends. trust me that is the easiest way to go and you need to be comfortable talking to people and learning to listen and get to know them.
in tearms of a new look just try tweaking a few bits like straightening your hair or changing the parting. as for make up a good natural base (i think foundation is important) plus eyeliner and mascara will look stunning lip gloss is a winner too.
good luck and enjoy yourself this summer college is fun and you will meet many new people, enjoy
2006-06-27 06:06:22 · answer #5 · answered by pstwix 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's time to grow up no more GAP kids clothes find a store with some new threads and change your word robe. change your hair get a tan. try to find a style that is you but not to the point that your saying I'm a **** abuse me unless that's what you want. now if you cant afford a new look i suggest getting a job something simple that pays okay but doesn't take a lot of your time. Also try some things when school starts that brings positive attention to your self get you noticed. act out get wild and crazy something your good at to turn some heads. and hopefully with a little luck and time you'll be on your way to the popular hot girl in your school
2006-06-27 03:03:50 · answer #6 · answered by captspankey 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
dear heart you are only 15 what is the rush to have a bf. think more about what you are gonna do in college abd how you are gonna achieve your goals. but if you must change your look get a hair cut and colour that suits you and buy clothes that makes you stand out from the crowd and says i'm not a "stupid girl" but a sophisticated intelligent young woman.
2006-06-27 03:12:39 · answer #7 · answered by tia 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
confidence is d key to gettin male attention. if u tink ur goodlookin day will too. honestly!!! u cud try gettin a new look to help boost ur confidence how a bout some highlights in ur hair nd a nice layered cut a bit of makup and some gloss. go in on ur first day and b urself but b confident and sure of urself and all d rest will follow. im sure ur a pretty and have a lot to offer dont worry about it ull b fine
2006-06-27 03:04:24 · answer #8 · answered by parisxxx 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't know how you dress.try and get clothes that would attract guys but don't go to slutty because then guys think your easy and you will get a bad name.if you are a very loud person just try and turn down the volume a bit...but you know if a guy really likes you then he will take you just as you are now,and i do believe you are really pretty and if you just wait a bit longer the right one will come.
2006-06-27 03:15:06 · answer #9 · answered by storm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know, really i do not encourage you to start at that age, because relationship involves commitment, determination, sacrifice and i suggest you better concentrate on your education first then, job, and bonus will be relationship. Relationship has got frustrations and stress and at your age you cannot be able to handle it because once you start there will be no turning back, you will jump from one point to the other.
2006-06-27 03:07:13 · answer #10 · answered by Naomi P 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋