2006-06-27 02:40:41 · 44 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
no definately no way, thy guy will end up screwing u up and hurting you beyond belief, i've been there, its extremely hard, they'll have u believing out, they'll degrade you make you feel worthless and you'll have no self esteem, you'll be forever thinking there upto something and most cases you'll be right, trust your gut feel and and don't be fooled by them, they are seriously are not worth it, your far better than that, what goes around comes around to people like that, i had to find somewhere else to live, i had no money and was generally a t***, do yourself justice and get out you'll never be happy otherwise, dont waste your time on someone like this, far nicer people out there that will treat you far better and love you for who u r
2006-06-27 09:30:21 · answer #1 · answered by carla69t 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Only you can answer that. Once is enough. I'm not sure I could forgive a second time. They obviously don't think enough of you to put your feelings first. Ask yourself why you want to be with him, What does your relationship do for you and how does it make you grow as a person. Come up with 3 good reasons. (you cant say because I love him, that's not a reason). If you can find 3 good reasons then give it a shot, if you cant say goodbye.
It's harder than you think. xx
2006-06-27 02:47:16 · answer #2 · answered by carolyn s 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once a cheat always a cheat. Once someone looks somewhere else the relationship is over in my opinion. You deserve better than this. There are plenty of great guys out there who will love and cherish you not break your heart time and time and time again cos this is what will keep happening if you give this rat another chance. Life is too short to waste it on someone who doesn't deserve your love. It will be hard but be strong and ditch this guy now. Good luck.
2006-06-27 02:44:31 · answer #3 · answered by missieclass 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is hard cuz I would say NO But ........ when i was in HS My BF cheated on me 3x but the last time i put a stop to it and decided i no longer wanted to be with him but Eventually we found a way to get back together and then after we got married and had a baby and i was preg again..... He tried it and got caught I was going to leave him and he swor not to ever do it agian and i gave him that cuz u know we've been 2gether for a long time and had kids so we went on 3yrs later hasn't done anything and doesn't go no where without me........ So people do change the only thing is some take you for granted........ Good luck
2006-06-27 02:48:26 · answer #4 · answered by •°♥Ms. SeXy♥°• 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love them, then forgive them. But do not think that they love you because one time cheating is an accident 2 times cheating is on purpose. We don't actively seek to hurt the ones we love. But if you forgive you must also forget or it will ruin any relationship there is.
2006-06-27 02:47:36 · answer #5 · answered by curiosity 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO!! Once a cheat always a cheat. Dump them. Ask yourself would they forgive you if the tables were turned?
2006-06-27 02:45:28 · answer #6 · answered by happyflamepepper 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forgive, but move on. You need to look into why you accept that kind of treatment. I put up with alot of crap from my boyfriends and in the midst of being really angry one day I asked myself "Where was the void in me that made me desperate enough to put up with someone treating me badly?" Forgiveness will free you from holding on to the hurt and pain of it all. Moving on should be a step of healing for you as well as taking the time to look into yourself, identifying what you want and determining you will not settle for less.
2006-06-27 03:01:47 · answer #7 · answered by n 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forgive doesn't mean staying with them. So forgive them yes but run away, far away! My man did it once, if I ever found out (full blown proof) he did it again, I'd be off!
2006-06-27 02:44:45 · answer #8 · answered by Mazzaroo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Religiously, you should be able to count up to 70 x 7. Islamically, you ought to learn to forgive and forget, so no need counting. Please forgive now and then, so that the good Lord in heaven can forgive you as ,many times possible whenever you erred and seek His forgiveness.
2006-06-27 02:54:40 · answer #9 · answered by mikail 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No. No. No.
First time, a mistake, second time, bad decision. It will keep happening and it would get worse. Hold your head high and dont lower your standards for anyone or anything. Faithfulness and honesty goes both ways in a relationship not oneway.
2006-06-27 02:59:06 · answer #10 · answered by Queen WahidVII 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋