can my relationship survive this?

Question

i work on week days and he goes to school so we hardly ever get to see each other and when we do there's always sum1 @ his crib so we never have time 2 ourselves ever! do u think we can survive this? we hardly ever get 2 make love and its important 4 us that we do. If we broke up i'd commit suicide -

Answer 1

if things continue the way they are, i don't think your relationship can survive. you want to take action. you might try talking to him and suggesting that you two spend more time together.

Answer 2

If you really want it to work out, it will.

My bf and I are in a similar situation. We both work full time and usually only see each other during the weekend. Occasionally he stays over on Saturday nights. We still both live at home.

We therefore don't have much time or privacy for intimacy and can go for long stretches without intimate contact. It takes a while to get use to. But if you really love each other, you'll get use to it and learn to make the best of the time you do have together.

Just remember, this period will eventually end. Schedules change all the time. Just make sure that while its lasting, you both make a special effort to make time for just the both of you. Ask him not to invite anyone over. Or, if he lives with someone, just lock yourselves in his room. His roomate shouldn't care.

Answer 3

Take heart, he is going to school to better himself, his career and your future. What is worrying is your statement "if we broke up i'd commit suicide".... no one should be that dependent on another person to the point of contemplating suicide if the relationship ends. What about using the time he is at school, to study yourself? You didnt say if you have kids, but even online study would be getting yourself ahead.

Answer 4

You shouldn't be in a relationship if you would commit suicide if you broke up. You are unstable and seek professional help. If there is always someone over there and he doesn't tell them to leave... ever he probably just is using you for sex.

Answer 5

First of all - If you feel suicidal because of your relationship status - Something is wrong. It concerns me greatly that you would consider hurting yourself because of some person. I understand the feelings of severe loss. However you should end the relationship yourself and get some help for your own dependency on another person to the point of suicide. Please see help on Co-Dependency.

Answer 6

something is wrong with this situation...I think he could if he wanted to have more time for the both of you.................No man and no woman is worth thinking of suicide.....and anyway you don't want a guy who doesn't want you.....Start to think of other things and life with out him...Start to get ready for it....and if it doesn't happen that is great but if it does then you will mentally be ready for it....There is someone out there for you...he doesn't sound committed

Answer 7

just do it! somebody's waiting for u to suicide!...ur relationship hasn't any chances so suicide...he doesn't care anyway he will find someone else so just jump in front of a train!

Answer 8

(plz) dont commit suicide i tryed doing that 2 but i never really did it i just attempet 2 do it....well maybe try 2 find a place where u guys can..........yea.........but if he loves u, u guys woulnd brake up

Answer 9

go boldly because a litte birdie told me jumping is easy and falling is fun.

Answer 10

there's a possibility....you need to spend time together for a strong relationship