I got over a serious heartbreak just few months ago, i opened my heart again just to let another one break it....pls tell me how to get more strength...how could it happen to me 3 times consistently...
2006-06-27 02:26:17 · 5 answers · asked by bea 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Well you know what they say, he broke your heart shame on him, he broke your heart again shame on you, someone has broken your heart a third time, who in the hec are you allowing to play with your emotions...the finger is definitely pointed at you for making wrong choices of your type of partner. I'd discuss this with Mom, best girlfriend, therapist if need so, just to get an honest 2nd opinion of what may be wrong with the choices you have made...good luck.
2006-06-27 02:40:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have been thru this as well. if you believe in God pray, pray to give you strength. If you don't keep yourself busy, don't fail, keep your head up. Personally it brings you down, but you have to keep your spirts high. From know on you will probably be a lot more insecure with your relationships because of how men have treated you. Just stay focused do you and worry about you. Someone will come, don't look because you are just looking for someone to replace that empty spot and then you wil end up being hurt again.
2006-06-27 09:33:43 · answer #2 · answered by geminigurl2404 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
probably you're just not seeing the exact factor that leads you to breakup... it happened to me too... but now, on my FIFTH one, it's going strong.
maybe he needs space, or more time together, but what you need for sure is good communication. not just the regular "hey, wuzzup?" and all the cutesy cutesy stuff, but a more like "how was your day?" type of thing. and prolly, consider what he likes too, like sports [i know, i'm not that into that stuff either].
just remember to be yourself ESPECIALLY when he's around. open up your heart, but only give him about 50% of it, so if he does break that 50%, you still have the other half to keep going. thaz what my mommy taught me =]]
the key to a good relationship is understanding, communication, and trust.
hope i helped =]
2006-06-27 09:33:20 · answer #3 · answered by Miss M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Darling, most of the ladies will tell you that it's a part of growing. At first I thought it happened because I was young, inexperienced and stupid but hey... it's life and we have to learn to accept and live with this situations. They're last until you get over them.
2006-06-27 09:50:04 · answer #4 · answered by october_babe 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cheer up baby. it happens to all of us. but theres no other way to find out if the other person is the right one for you unless you open up your heart. unfortunately, this means risking getting it broken, again, and sometimes again, and again, etc. smile! in the meantime enjoy life
2006-06-27 09:29:50 · answer #5 · answered by marabierto1961 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋