2006-06-27 02:19:36 · 16 answers · asked by finemekino 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Newborn & Baby
Well, here is a woman's perspective.
It really depends on the reason she's mad.
If her feeling's hurt, show understanding that you do know why she's upset. That will help release a lot of anger from her. You know, sometimes she just needs to be understood. Wear her shoes. Show empathy. (not sympathy)
If she's mad because of a very obvious thing you did wrong-eg. not keeping a promise, apologize.Make it up to her.
If she has a pattern of controlling people with anger, stand firm and don't give in. Your yielding to her anger is just helping the wrong pattern in the relationship.
Well, she's your wife and you should know her the best. Get creative and wish you good luck!
2006-06-27 02:28:38 · answer #1 · answered by juggler 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, it's a little hard to give advice because there aren't any details. Is she mad because she's just overly sensitive right now? Or did you do something bone-headed? Besides, what works for one woman may not work for another.
In the end, though... when she is telling you why she's mad, make sure you listen. Don't focus on redeeming yourself or using logic at first... just listen and make sure you help her see that you actually heard her. You know, acknowledge what she said by repeating it or whatever.
AFTER you acknowledge her, if she misunderstood your actions or whatnot, THEN calmly explain why you did what you did. The very fact that she was able to vent might bring her down a notch to be able to listen to "your side of the story."
Again, Acknowledge first... THEN explain. ;)
Good luck.
2006-06-27 02:29:04 · answer #2 · answered by A Designer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You put this in the newborn section so I am assuming you have one...in which case your wife is going through enormous changes with hormones going haywire...try to be patient things should settle down.
2006-06-27 02:25:15 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depending on what you've done to tick her off, My advice a really really big bouquet of her favorite flowers and something in the jewelery family that's really shiny.
Oh yeah and something alone this line "I'm sorry, I love you" and then falter her the best you can.
Good luck
2006-06-27 02:25:13 · answer #4 · answered by liathano70 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there must be a reason that she is mad at you. whatever it is, you need to apologize and work on it. you cant just say im sorry and pretend everything is going to be ok. if you did something wrong, tell her you wont do it again, it was a mistake and you werent thinking. dont forget to hug her and kiss her! ♥♥
2006-06-27 02:24:29 · answer #5 · answered by BeAuTiFuL 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well just talk to her and tell her how you feel and that your really sorry and ask her what you can do to not make her mad at you.
2006-07-03 06:08:44 · answer #6 · answered by aleshabell 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her you're sorry,and you really mean it please baby would it make you feel any better if you hit me? Then let her punch you in the arm it may hurt then laugh a little,then tell her come on then take her to her favorite place and it's over. But next time watch your self
2006-06-27 02:36:15 · answer #7 · answered by dangerously in love 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what did you do to make her mad at you
my husband and i are fighting as well if it is your fault then tell her your sorry buy her flowers and then give her space she will forgive you in time just depends why she is mad
2006-06-27 04:13:51 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do whatever u have to do to prove that u r really sorry and u will never do it again but u have to mean it r else she will know that u don't mean it
2006-06-27 02:24:34 · answer #9 · answered by queendjbam 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Flowers, Candy or an evening out together.
2006-06-27 02:23:46 · answer #10 · answered by Skip E 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋