my sister is 17 years old and is still obssessed with kiddie stuff like teenage mutant ninja turtles, mickey mouse, and danny phantom. i know its great to be unique but this is just weird...and then she acts like the characters in the shows..once she was convinced that she was raphael the ninja turtle....she has been homeschooled until about 6 months before this school year ended..she is in 11th grade and will probably be going to college in the next 2 years ...but she has no friends cuz she lives in kiddie land....everyone thinks she is weird ...i tried to help her but shes too stubborn ..what should i do???!!
2006-06-27 02:18:29 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
you should try to help her break out of her childhood
2006-06-27 02:22:26 · answer #1 · answered by doodielilp 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i imagine that they ought to easily be acquaintances for now. besides the very undeniable actuality that at the same time as i become 15 I dated an 18 3 hundred and sixty 5 days previous. yet we are in uncomplicated phrases 2 a million/2 years aside. it really is been 2 years and we are nevertheless more than chuffed at the same time :) i imagine it will be worse in case your sister only became 14. Are they precisely 4 years aside? Oh and yet another tale: also at the same time as i become 14 I dated a 17 3 hundred and sixty 5 days previous and he ended up raping me and getting me pregnant. He by no skill talked to me lower back after he graduated and that i finished up having a miscarriage because i become so less than pressure. i become so depressed afterwords that I went through drug abuse and self damage and am nevertheless no longer over it (i'm 17 now). So only tell your sister to verify this. finally it really is her decision. i do not imagine telling your father and mom is the right component to do except she is in genuine problem. it is going to finally end up causing assorted relations complications. So it would want to bypass both way. one component she desires to entice close is to no longer HAVE sex with him till she's previous 16 because he might want to bypass to detention center. properly this second i imagine you need to only tell her that and watch them heavily to make optimistic he's not making her do something adverse to her will and if he's make optimistic you tell your father and mom instantly away. wish i have helped...
2016-11-15 07:53:16 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think there's anything you can do but be there for her when she hits the real world and it treated badly by her peers for being so un-kewl and all that.
Maybe once she's matriculated for a while and then hits college she'll change her interests.
Not that being just like everyone else is so great. And if she's not hurting anyone or herself, more power to her.
2006-06-27 02:23:01 · answer #3 · answered by parsonsel 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, let her be herself. I still like Taz, Veggie Tales, and I go with my kids to see the kid movies not just for them but for me too. We just saw Cars and I loved it! I also enjoy the Incredibles! Don't make her grow up too quick. The world is cold and hard. If it makes her happy, let her go with it. There are others like her out there. Check out my 360 and then cruise on over to my MySpace link and take a look. I'm 37 and refuse to grow up! Hahaha
2006-06-27 02:22:47 · answer #4 · answered by Mommymonster 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Plan1: You can just leave her in peace
Plan 2: You could introduce her to what you are interested in.
She is who she is and I think you should like her the way she is. I bet she is still a good person.
2006-06-27 02:27:04 · answer #5 · answered by elena_browne 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people are hard to leave their kiddie world. Let her be... I think it is still be fine (she is still teen and not an adult yet), and hopefully she will grow up one day.
2006-06-27 02:21:50 · answer #6 · answered by teddybear1268 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing much you can do. She will outgrow it. It's a much easier world to live in, that of a child, so she probably wishes to make the most of it while she can.
2006-06-27 02:22:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU cannot change her, she has to want to change. Sometimes we have to let people live and learn. If and/or when she gets hurt, you just have to be there to pick her up and dust her off. Afterall, that is your sister and she does love you. So that is how you can help her.
2006-06-27 02:23:25 · answer #8 · answered by alphra99 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
leave her alone. im lots older and still have to have my dose of saturday cartoons besides my kids love the fact that i can do this it gives us time to spend together. she will come around in her own time probably when she goes off to college...
2006-06-27 02:22:07 · answer #9 · answered by luv41anatha 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let her be her and you be you! As long as she is not hurting anyone whats the problem! Maybe you should enjoy life like a child also .
2006-06-27 02:21:21 · answer #10 · answered by Melimel 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
let her grow up on her own schedule. you may not believe this but when she goes to college she won't be weird anymore. she'll fit right in.
2006-06-27 02:23:13 · answer #11 · answered by Coz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋