he's either lying to me, or lying to the people here about his age. and he said that he lost the girl he LOVES. wat the hell do i do? am i just some1 hes playing around with or is he serious about "us"? i need help!!!!!!!!
2006-06-27 02:14:33 · 10 answers · asked by payasa 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Yes surely there is someone for you a little more local.
2006-07-01 17:15:58 · answer #1 · answered by tm_tech32 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Drop him!! One of my good friends, who is still pursuing men online, has been lied to multiple times. The first guy said he was 23, really hott and a model....turned out to be a 17 year old girl playing a joke. She's also met another guy who said he was going to move to be with her (then after she hired a PI to investigate him she found out everything he told her was a lie) then he had his friends tell her he committed suicide because she called him out on his lies. She's also met guys local to where she lives, one guy (who is in the Air Force) got very physical with her after she said no. Stay away from guys online, if you can't at least set up a new email add that doesn't reveal anything other than your age and 1st name, no last names or where you live (not even the state) just to protect yourself.
2006-06-27 02:48:34 · answer #2 · answered by Michelle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop and think. Did you meet this person on the internet? If so then what do you really think? Sounds like a very bad idea to even be conversing with this guy. You never really know the truth about someone when you talk to them on the internet or phone which ever it is, it's NOT SAFE. I met someone from the internet once and he was 20 years older then he said he was on the internet. He tried to take advantage of me and it was not a good situation at all. Don't believe him. You don't really know him. This has UNSAFE written all over it. How can this guy love you? He doesn't even really know you like your family would know you. Saying I love you is a big step, nothing to be taken lightly with. If you've said I love you I suggest you stop saying it. But what I really suggest is stop talking to him all together. Good luck, don't let people take advantage of you, be safe!!!!!
Jaime J.
If you have anymore questions on this my e-mail is sanrioiowa@yahoo.com. Don't do anything to let him know where you live.
2006-06-27 02:47:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If hes younger it would explain why hes fixed on a relationship, even if its far away. Contrary to belif, most men (esspecially younger ones in adolensance) only have sex on the mind. Also, just listen to the words he types, if it sounds suspicious and unlikely all too often, its probably not who you think it is. Remeber, online, someone can be someone they're not just as easily as being them, so be wary. Good luck.
2006-06-27 02:23:52 · answer #4 · answered by darkblade_kalki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SERIOUS has a whole different meaning when there's 4000 miles between you. How can you GO OUT with a guy who ain't even there?
2006-06-27 02:19:57 · answer #5 · answered by snvffy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be anybody sucker!! What is your heart telling you? You have to think realistic about this. He is 4000 miles away. He can tell you anything and you really wouldn't know. I would let him go, think about your feelings first, why would you even consider something that lives that far away?
2006-06-27 02:37:50 · answer #6 · answered by geminigurl2404 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont know how old u are and this is up 2 u but i was in a similar situation ur best bet would be to stay away from him because since u dont know much about him then its hard to tell what all he is lieing about try guys that live around u.
2006-06-27 02:22:18 · answer #7 · answered by mc 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow. if he starts out the relationship with a lie(s), what should you do?
you should get the heck outta there, thats what you do. run and dont look back!
2006-06-27 02:20:06 · answer #8 · answered by afterflakes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't even waste my time with him. There are plenty of other men out there.
2006-06-27 02:23:48 · answer #9 · answered by meaghen2004 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
STOP COMMUNICATING WITH THE LIER,,, ONE LIE LEADS TO ANOTHER LIE CAUSE HE NEEDS TO COME UP WITH ONE FOR THE ONE JUST TOLD STAY AWAY
2006-06-27 02:19:27 · answer #10 · answered by Melimel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋