I wanna have a baby?

Question

I have a boy-friend , but we dont have chance to be together as often as we wish . We tried many times to have a baby .
Do u guys have helpful advice ?
Please write your experence ?
Thanks

Answer 1

I was trying with my xbf to get pregnant and we never did.Then I met my now husbabnd and we just had a baby (she is 7mo now)So I guess if it is meant to happen it will and if it doesn't then this is not the person you were meant to have children with.Be sure you are emotionally and financially ready it is a lot of work and children are soooo expensive!

Answer 2

It's difficult to say exactly how long it will take any one individual or couple to get pregnant. Factors such as your age, general and reproductive health, and when you have intercourse all impact your chances of conceiving a child

However, these general statistics may give you an idea of how long it will take. Normally fertile couples have a 25 percent chance of getting pregnant each cycle, and a cumulative pregnancy rate of 75 to 85 percent over the course of one year. Still, some healthy couples can take even longer to get pregnant

And you can try to increase your likelihood of getting pregnant sooner by learning to pinpoint exactly when you ovulate, and by familiarizing yourself with the cyclic hormonal and physical changes that take place in your body each month.

I have included some links for you so you can do some reading and research on your body. OVULATION IS THE KEY TO GETTING PREGNANT! Remember that. These are the steps you need to take...
1.) Make an appt. with an OBGYN. He or She needs to give you a complete exam and make sure you are having regular periods, that your tubes are unblocked, and that you donot have anything else that may cause you to not get Pregnant ie...sexually transmitted diseases, PCOS, ect...
2.) You need to make sure that you are ovulating. Belive it or not, some women, do not ovulate. And as I said, Ovulation is the KEY to getting pregnant. To do this, you should buy a Basal Themometor (you can buy at almost any store where they sell regular themometors.) and start taking your temps EVERY MORNING BEFORE you get out of bed. to read more about this, check out this website for what they have to say about it.. http://www.mamasark.com/bbt.htm.........
3.) you also need to learn to check your Cervix Position AND your Cervial Mucus everyday. To learn more about this check out these websites... http://www.webwomb.com/check_cervical_po...
and
http://www.webwomb.com/cervical_mucus_pa...
4.) Once you have got this all down you need a place to chart them all so that you can keep track of what your body is doing and when you ovulate. www.fertilityfriend.com is the best place to do this. It is a free site and it allows you to chart your temperature, your cervial mucus and position and helps detrmine when you ovulate.

*********OF COURSE YOU CAN ALWAYS JUST DO IT THE OLD FASHIONED WAY AND HAVE ALOT OF SEX AND HOPE FOR THE BEST! LOL But for your best chances, these are the steps you need to take!!*************

~~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~PLEASE REMEMBER!!!! Even a 100% healthy couple only has a 40% chance of conciving each month, so dont get discouraged if it doesnt happen right away, even if you do all the things above. Just have fun with it, and do not make sex a chore or a job, just relax and enjoy eachother, and when the time is right, you will get Pregnant!
Good luck to you and TONS OF BABY DUST YOUR WAY!!!!! *~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~...

Answer 3

If he's just your boyfriend, you talk to him FIRST about where YOU TWO are going to be in the future together BEFORE you bring a baby into the mix... I don't care how badly you want one.

Have you read ANY of the other posts? There are so many young women on this site asking about what to do because their boyfriend cut and run as soon as they got pregnant. Make sure he's in it for the long haul so you baby can have two parents, not just one.

Answer 4

well if u want a baby by this man.. marry him and then make sure u have enough money to raise the baby (there not cheap) and then try when ur around ur period then thats when it most likey will happen.. thats what happend to me!!!

good luck hope u find the answer u were looking for ... need any other advice contact me at [e-mail]

Answer 5

well when i was trying to have a baby with my boyfriend it juuuust wasnt workin i tried 3 years and it just wasnt working then i made up my mind.. im gonna finish my goals get a house then get father along in my job and id have a baby.... welllllll when i stopped being so focused then.... boom im 23 weeks pregnant cuz i want stressing it soo much and focused on other things but that was me its diffrent for everyone... good luck

Answer 6

I know this seems odd but it works. After he has came inside you put pillows under your pelvis to elevate your pelvis for about 3 minutes. A doctor actually told me to do this and it really works.

Answer 7

you want to have a baby......! good luck but i think you and your bf should get more invovled and get married before a baby comes but i wish you the best luck

Answer 8

Try to know some causees. why you not have any chance.
Convince your boy friend to do intercourse.
Tell him benefits of a baby.
Daily use lipstick.

Answer 9

First marry him. then u wont have any problem in meeting him.
All the best & Best wishes

Answer 10

lol@saif

dont think about it and check with a doctor to tell u what to do and check maybe smth wrong