Should married couples have privacy from the other spouse? Or do you believe that each person should be open and honest with no secrets or should they be able to have some privacy. Is it okay to go through the others belongings?
If a couple marries and becomes one then why have privacy?
Serious answers please.
2006-06-27 01:02:59 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I don't have anything to hide from my husband. I don't need privacy from him. As it is, everything that I do affects both of us and our children. He knows all my passwords and accounts and I know all his. He can look through my stuff and I can look through his. The thing is, we don't. We trust each other. If have a good strong marriage based on a foundation of trust and love, you don't need privacy from your spouse.
2006-06-27 02:03:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I believe in privacy in the bathroom, I close the door, if my b/f knocks and I am not actually on the loo then he does come in but there are certain things you just don't need to see, I don't want to see my b/f doing number 2's. The only things I keep a secret is something that is meant to be a surprise for my b/f, for example if I am planning a special meal or a gift for him then there is little point in telling him or it will ruin the surprise. He can go through my phone or my bag any time he wants, there would never be anything there to upset him. He can have access to my email accounts as I don't hide anything or have anything to be ashamed of. I don't snoop but I know that if I wanted to, I could pick up his phone or bag, it's just not like me to go looking through his things. I think that total honesty is a must or there is no point in being with someone.
2006-06-27 04:51:46 · answer #2 · answered by sparkleythings_4you 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is an individual decision. Some people have no secrets and it is ok for them to go through each others personal items. Everyone, no matter if their married or not needs some privacy.
2006-06-27 01:13:11 · answer #3 · answered by ctryhnny04 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes they should each have some alone time here and there but not for long periods of time as they are a couple and need to do things together and spend time together. I do feel that you should be open and honest with each other and now secrets. But i do not go through his pockets or wallet unless i ask first. This is just common courtesy and respect. He does not just go through my purse either.
2006-06-27 03:47:26 · answer #4 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-13 21:13:17 · answer #5 · answered by cohan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To an extent, privacy is OK - and by that I mean, everyone is intitled to having some time to themselves to recharge. But I think it's very important not to have secrets in a marriage, unless they're surprise birthday parties - things like that.
2006-06-27 01:32:31 · answer #6 · answered by Rachel 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i believe that everything in a marriage should be shared my husband and i share email and all passwords so there is no secrets between us you can check it if you want or not but you at least have the option. friends are usually mutual so there really isn't secret friendships or conversations or expiriences that are expirienced w/o each other. just make sure that you don't loose yourself having your privacy "alone time" doesn't mean keeping secrets from one another.
2006-06-27 01:11:52 · answer #7 · answered by mylittlemela 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ya there should be privacy between a married couple because a man n woman has a different thinking,n several legal things which a husband like n wife doesnt n wife like husband doesnt so to avoid fighting there shoukd be privacy.n keeping things private is not bad
2006-06-27 01:10:41 · answer #8 · answered by njoylife 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it is ok as long and nothing big is kept away just such as cheating of things of that nature but it is ok for a couple to want there own space thats why guys like the garage so much
2006-06-27 01:07:10 · answer #9 · answered by mr floppy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hell noway they shouldn't go there they shouldnt keep secerets
2006-06-27 01:12:18 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋