because if he does jerk off and i catch him at it the relationship will be over because he shouldn't have to jerk off when he has me plus if i would catch him then i know that he does lie to me because he told me he has no reason to jerk off because he has me
2006-06-26 23:45:29 · 19 answers · asked by sherry m 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
We men relive ourselves as we need it.
He is probably afraid or nervous of what youd think of him. Plus its easier and a lot less awkward to take care of it yourself.
2006-07-03 15:06:15 · answer #1 · answered by lecarz 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Man, I have no idea. If I knew it was always available, then I would never do that. I'm right with you there. Are you sure he knows it's always available? And is it actually always available? You should definitely have open communication about this stuff in your relationship. It's important that you are both concerned about fulfilling each others needs. You two should talk on a regular basis and make sure you are fulfilling each others needs. Ask him what he likes, what he wants, and make sure you are willing to do what you can forhim, and he should be doing the same for you also. It's really sad to see those relationships where the partners are okay with each other looking at porn. It's not the way it's suppossed to be. You should be trying to fulfill each others needs, and telling your partner what your needs are.
2006-06-27 00:15:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
WELL, the attitude you are showing now is enough to put someone off!!! grow up and join the real world, masturbation is a form of sex, it's different than other forms, the occasional self session is beneficial to keeping the "spark" alive in a monogamous relationship. besides, you never have the right to tell ANYONE what they can or can't do with themselves!!
are you jealous of his hand?? GET HELP!!
2006-06-26 23:54:48 · answer #3 · answered by women_r_edible 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
it's a stress reliever... often times it's easier to jerk off then it is to have sex.. also, it's sometimes easier for us to fantasize while jerking off then it is while with someone..
Guys have been doing it, usually much longer then they have been having sex.. You should be more excepting of it and maybe let him share it with you.. it can be quite erotic watching each other pleasuring themselves..
Change the way you think.. he's not doing it to make you mad or because he doesn't want you.. it's just something he does for stress..
2006-06-26 23:54:10 · answer #4 · answered by LokoLobo 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Guys were getting off by their own hand before they met you and will after you have gone. If you want to keep your guy around, don't sweat the small stuff. He knows what he likes. Talking to him explicitly and learning what he likes (and vice versa) will only strengthen your relationship. However, threatening to cut him off or kick him to the side if you catch him yanking it will only detract from your relationship.
2006-06-26 23:58:28 · answer #5 · answered by mwrankins2 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Fantasies are always better then the real thing. You would have to take his imagination away for him to stop. Cause once you jerk off you can never stop.
2006-06-26 23:51:19 · answer #6 · answered by Brian 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stop making it so easy for him. any sex stops being special if it is available 'on tap'. You are available whenever he wants it? you are a doormat. that is why he is masterbating.
And as for your attitude of , he has me so he should never do it, GET REAL! He is a guy, he will do it. Hey you might as well say, he has me so he shouldn't use the toilet! Sometimes, masturbation is just a biological function, not a loving function. so let him get on with it, don't give him a hard time about it and when he wants to make love, he's more likley to come to you.
2006-06-26 23:55:16 · answer #7 · answered by Mike H 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Guys are going to jerk of regardless, maybe you arent doing it good enough and need to improve.
2006-06-26 23:47:16 · answer #8 · answered by DL 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, if hes doing that, then he's not out there looking for it elsewhere. Think about it. If he has those needs and urges but chooses to do it alone when you cant, thank your lucky stars he is not doing it with someone else.
2006-06-26 23:51:01 · answer #9 · answered by justmenotu 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Guys normally fantasise more than one woman. Don't woory , it's not that he is not loyal, but he can have his fantasy lived. take it easy , nothin wrong with u or ur relationship. But yet again nothing is for sure
2006-06-27 00:30:01 · answer #10 · answered by Vio Prince 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋